"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Any chance she could be pregnant?

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I'm really paranoid about this lately. Maybe it's because we're on a break for the past week. She's on the pill and we use rubbers, but a few times I entered her without a condom, but only for a few minutes. I think there was some precum there. She's had her period since then. It was actually the day we decided to do the break. She's going through alot and is especially clingy. The break was my idea because I thought she needed some time for herself before we decide if this is really something we should continue since it's not as fun and we're always with problems lately. Anyway, let me know what you think the chance of pregnancy is and also what you think about the "taking a break" issue. Do things get back to normal afterwards? Let me know what you think. Thanks.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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you'll be fine as long as you never came in her.
 

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Well she is on the pill and has had her period - she isn't pregnant.

There is no such thing as "taking a break" - its over and you are just putting off what will eventually happen.
 

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Yeah if she had her period then she can't very well be pregnant now can she? My friend is having a pregancy scare because her period is like a week and a half late. If you were going through something like that, THEN you should be worried.

If you're on a "break" from your girlfriend to give her space the kudos to you. Things may or may not go back to normal when you two decide to start seeing each other again. I'd just try to make it so there's as little akwardness as possible...if that's even possible. What are the terms for your break? Do you still see her? Do you talk on the phone? It's hard to gauge without some details there pal.
 

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Originally posted by PRMoon
Yeah if she had her period then she can't very well be pregnant now can she? My friend is having a pregancy scare because her period is like a week and a half late. If you were going through something like that, THEN you should be worried.
i remember some months ago, my girlfriend's period was 20+ days late... she didn't miss it... basically she then had 2 in a row

anyway, she can't be pregnant if she's had her period


i always use the pullout method (she's on the pill), since i don't like rubbers, and she's never gotten preggy
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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she can't be pregnant if she's had her period
actually she can go threw spotting...which is like a period and often mistaked for one.

but in this guys case probably not.
 

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Originally posted by PRMoon
My friend is having a pregancy scare because her period is like a week and a half late. If you were going through something like that, THEN you should be worried.
YIKES! Turns out she's knocked up after all! Who knew?! Tell you one thing though IT AIN'T MY KID BETTER BELIEVE IT! I mean I nailed her a few times but I was wrappd and she didn't get me off. Ah well, she wants me to help her with her abortion but I can't see that happening, I told her to find the guy who she had unpretected sex with (yeah I just took a stab in the dark I didn't really know but she seems the type ya know) and get him to pony up the dough for the procedure. She fessed up to having sex a few times with a guy without condoms.

Always remember kids "Wrap your wacker before you attack her"
 

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Originally posted by Sicarius
Usually if you are in her and she has her period after three-four days AFTER that, at LEAST, then you are ok. Reason: sperm take a few days to get to the egg.

actually, it's just that sperm MAY survive for 3-4 days into the woman, but it doesn't take that much to get to impregnate her. in fact it's almost impossible to impregnate a woman by having sex with her 2 days before her period...
 

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Originally posted by PRMoon
YIKES! Turns out she's knocked up after all! Who knew?!
This girl had her abortion today, the guy who got her pregnant paid for it. She called me today and she sounded like ****. I guess the procedure involved some heavy drugs. She told me she was miserable and she has to eat soft foods for the rest of the day and sleep. I asked her how she felt emotionally and she admitted she felt some loss even though she was in no condition to be a parent and taking it to term was out of the question.

That was all I really wanted to hear from her so I told her I'd talk to her later and she should rest up. The whole situation was horrible but she brought it on herself I guess. Poor girl.
 
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