“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Any Buddhists?

WhitePimp

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I am seriously thinking of adopting a Buddhist lifestyle and was wondering if anyone here has any insights on it, experience, advice, good books to read etc. I'm checking out The Book by Allen Watts and that's a good starter from what I've heard. I realize sosuave's probably not the best place to ask for this kind of request, but hey, I'm logged on so why the hell not!:D

Buddhists, I need your help! :rock:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I've got a friend who claims he's buddhist. I doubt he is though.
 

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I don't actually label myself as Buddhist because it sounds too cultural and traditional, but I practice a lot of Zen teachings. I've been reading books on Zen for about 6 years now, but I've yet to experience enlightenment. Well...I guess I could be called a Buddhist.

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what is enlightenment???
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I am buddist. If you want to become buddist, you have to attend a few session at buddist temple. The monk will explain everything you really needed to know before you pick up a book at library.
Buddism isn't be definition truly a religion but it is more like a lifestyle which one disassociate oneself from the pettiness, greed in human society. A true monk disown all material possessions and cherish all lifeforms. Monks tend to eat vegetarian food because it would be a sin to eat a living creature such as chicken, cow, pig or other animals. It is tantamount to murder.
For average buddists followers, you don't have to obey the doctrine of monkhood since you aren't following the footsteps of Budda. Regular people can eat animal proteins just fine without having sins. You just have to diassociate yourself from the pettiness activities in society. I hope that I explain it clearly for you.
 

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When a guy came up to Buddha and ask is there a God. THe Buddha simply didnt say anything, because we have to figure it our selfs.

A guy came up to Buddha and says I fell so knowledgable now with my new insights, The Buddha picked up a leaf and said All that I had teach is just what is in the vains of this leaf. There are many more tress and leafs out there.

I would suggest you to read The Dream Weaver by Jack Bowen. It is a philosophy book and it doesnt teach buddism but it gives you an insight of how to percieve things. There is even a chapter on God too. It will get you thinking and just like buddism it can be philosophical. Thats why buddism can be used for many other relegions because it doesnt really have a God. I would strongly suggest this book to you. ( I am curently reading this for one of my classes.)
 

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I like the Zen concept that opposites are fundamental in the universe. The ideas of wall and window or door do not mean anything without the other one. A window is an absence of wall. Without walls there could not be windows.

People tend to get mad very quickly when you point out similarities between their religion and others, but Christianity in theory is very similar to Buddhism in theory. Jesus, like Buddha, recommended abandoning material wealth and respecting life. Jesus also frequently used metaphors that seem very Zen to me. "Sometimes the master is also the servant" is one that comes to mind. But no one wants to hear this. They get too mad. The Christians are like "how dare you compare us to the heathens" and the Buddists are like "how dare you compare my enlightenment to that of Ned Flanders." Religion seems to make people with very similar philosophies hate each other for trivial reasons. The various sects of Islam murder each other over differences in historical doctrine that I can barely understand. They are fighting about things that happened in the time of Abraham and Noah. So similarities in religion are a touchy subject, but most of the world religions share the same basic principles: don't lie/murder/steal/hurt people, care about others, material wealth does not buy spiritual happiness, etc.
 

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When i was rockin out at Uni i actually went to see a Monk speak on my campus.

It was pretty cool, kinda dry and not too enlightening. The name of the event was "the evolution of the mind" or something like that. It was worth going to because i gamed this chick sitting next to me (only hot girl there) and got her digits. So that was cool.

after he spoke he had a question/answer session and this ****in idiot nerd kept talking to him about how his dad left him when he was young and all this other crap about his life in front of everyone. We were all looking at eachother trying not to laugh our asses off.

This guy did this like 3x.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm either a bodhisattva or a narcissist.
 
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