"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Any books I could read to improve my life as a teenager

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Haha. I've been looking for that book for the past three years.

As far as I know, no one has written a good one. Once an author reaches the age where they can offer wisdom, the times have already changed too much.
 

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Eckhart Tolle- Power of Now
Generation S.L.U.T. - Marty Beckerman. Closest to a high school guide I've found, besides the actual high school guides.
Mark Redman- Conquer Your Campus
Ozzie - Physical Game
Omari Warren - Assanova Collection
Gunwitch - first two sections (all of foundations) of Dynamic Sex Life.

Teen-Game.com also has a manifesto, haven't read, applicable.
 

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Just read Generation SLUT.

Interesting style of writing and there was really no end to it, but it fvcking opened my eyes.

Conquer your campus is probably the best one out of those.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Here is one I'm currently reading. http://manhood101.com/principles101.pdf and if you scroll to the bottom of your screen you will see a link that says the DJ Bible inside you will find the book of pook which is enjoyable.
 
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