"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Any black guys here

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SirFratserlot

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specifically black guys that don't live in the states or American. Also, do y'all act proper.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What does proper mean? I dont act like a stereotype if thats what you mean.
 

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dafuq I just read ?
 

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So, this is how it starts... now I see what makes the Indian Race Troll tick. He was pretty "proper", too. What makes you think "proper" white guys are banging hot, white party skanks? It doesn't matter your race. Those fake *****es you're seeking after go after the *******s, douche bags, alpha losers, etc. They're "high class", and treat those deemed not good enough like objects / toys to mess with. It's your personality, attitude, and behavior that's turning them off. Those cliquey chicks are all about the status... As a "black guy", if you were more thuggish, you'd probably have more success. Just like "white guys" fare better when they act and look like players or bad boys... or frat-jock douches.

Yea, you have to act and be fake; be more concerned about maintaining your rep and living the shallow lifestyle... but that's all these dumb *****es care about - because they're fake and shallow themselves. It's part of the gig.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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