any advice would be nice

[TheCommonreactor]

Yo ppls. Im a junior at my school and ive been head over heals for this girl for about a year and a half now. since shes been in and out of relationships, we have basicly just stayed really close friends, but now im kinda willing to giving being more than friends a shot. she found out i liked her last summer(summer of 2007) and had this whole "do you still like me" convo which was as exiting as it sounds, but now shes been a little more flirty. long story short, she broke up with her boy friend about a month ago and last weekend after a movie we ended up cuddling in bed and almost kissed, but ended up falling asleep anyways. not to bore u with all the details, but she lit candles and put on the beatles before she joined me on her bed, also saying "haha, we look like lovers, bc were in bed with candles and music on" later in the week i over heard her telling some of our friends about that night, turns out shes told more ppl then i did about that night(i only told 1, she told about 10) even after this night, she still isnt giving me many signs that she likes me, maybe she was disapointed i didnt kiss her, idk

well, that was longer than expected

if u need anymore details, id be happy to share, but i reall need some feedback on what to do next >.>

thanks

 

[FirstInstinct]

Who cares if she didn't show interest after that night. The fact that you got that far should be more than enough to push yourself further. You gonna give up when you got that far?

Just wait a bit, make her want to see you even more and wonder when the next time you two'll be together again. Don't return calls, use push pull for a short time, then go for it again.

And is it just me, or are a lot of threads popping up from people who don't exactly seem to/sound like they have read the DJ bible/any of the material here?
It's like people are just popping in for quick advice on how to get a quick **** and leaving without bothering to actually READ any of the life-changing things that GET you where you want.

 

[intrextrovert]

after a movie we ended up cuddling in bed and almost kissed, but ended up falling asleep anyways. not to bore u with all the details, but she lit candles and put on the beatles before she joined me on her bed, also saying "haha, we look like lovers, bc were in bed with candles and music on" l

WHAT

go for it

 

[TheCommonreactor]

ahh i feel like such an idiot =[ hopefully i havent missed my one chance.

thanks guys, i guess im just shooting for another one of those nights and then actually make my move

any more advice would be welcome tho, so dont stop =P

 

[Hip-Hop]

IF you had did anything that night, it might have either been wrongly taken or blew way out of proportion trust me, things similar to this have happened to me more than once... Of-course not as big of a background story...One time, I f**ked one of my best-friends, biggest mistake I've made!