"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

Any advice on what to eat late at night and not gain weight??

trent81

Banned
Joined
May 30, 2009
Messages
409
Reaction score
13
Not eating late at night is not an option. So what should I eat late at night? I work out at about 730 or so and I come home and I'm starving. What makes you gain the least weight? I'm putting back the pounds when I get home....Any advice on practical stuff I can buy at stores? What to snack on when you're at home on computer or watching movie? Cheese? Jerky? Fruits? Thanks.......
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

ENIGMA16

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 21, 2009
Messages
764
Reaction score
21
It doesn't matter when you eat as long as your daily caloric intake is less than your daily maintenance level. As long as you are running a deficit you will lose weight.
 

Colossus

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 22, 2005
Messages
3,494
Reaction score
543
Dont eat a lot of carbs before bed. It will spike your insulin and you will just store all that energy from the sugars. Snack on nuts, raw veggies, some cheese, maybe some yogurt that isnt cranked with sugar.
 

domingo_mandingo

New Member
Joined
Nov 2, 2009
Messages
7
Reaction score
0
Location
New Zealand
As Colossus says go easy on the carbs. I work nights also (6:30pm - 11:00pm), so I usually take two meals to work with me. That way I'm not so hungry when I get home.

If you must eat carbs, go for the slow digesting variety (wholemeal bread, brown rice, sweet potatoes). These will better please your appetite, without causing a surge in insulin which leads to increased fat storage. Note that eating foods high in protein (meat, poultry, dairy, nuts) will also better satisfy your appetite. Cottage cheese is especially good before bed as it contains a lot of casein, which digests very slowly. If you have some good muscle mass, casein will help prevent your body entering a catabolic state (basically your body eats itself) whilst sleeping, due to its slow rate of digestion.
 

WC2

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 29, 2006
Messages
1,700
Reaction score
69
Location
New York City
Casein protein is a staple every night for me (especially if I've been drinking that night).

It's done wonders as far as keeping more of my gains in the gym.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

Colossus

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 22, 2005
Messages
3,494
Reaction score
543
Yeah not enough guys take casein. Everyone is so brainwashed that 100% whey isolate is the only way to go....but it's not. It's good POST-workout, but the rest of the time you need to be taking in a good protein blend. Whey isolate is absorbed very quickly and doesn't provide the sustained levels of amino acids in the blood stream you need while sleeping.
 

blinkwatt101

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 26, 2009
Messages
268
Reaction score
2
Raw cashews,peanuts,almonds,vegetables(not potatoes),strawberries,apples.
 

ENIGMA16

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 21, 2009
Messages
764
Reaction score
21
Fruits, veggies, whole grains, protein. Generally I'll just have a glass of skim milk which will tide me over until I can fall asleep, but otherwise I'll have an apple or some yogurt or something.
 

blinkwatt101

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 26, 2009
Messages
268
Reaction score
2
I'd suggest against more then 1-2 piece of wheat bread(which have grains). Or at least eat that stuff 3-4 hours before bed if your dead serious about keeping a low bodyfat.

Fat free milk is also a good one!
 

dbot

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 12, 2003
Messages
530
Reaction score
63
Cottage cheese and a teaspoon of flaxseed oil.

I've been using that combo every night for the past couple years, and it has done wonders for me. The slow digestion will keep your body from fasting during the night, and you will actually wake up ready to eat again. This is important because most people are not hungry when they wake up in the morning, which is a critical time to eat, especially if you're trying to build muscle.

If you're not a fan of cottage cheese, any form of casein protein will do the job.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

Top