any advice on how oi can convince my friend to stop wot hes doing

[dj ben2]

look i got this friend lets call him paul and he has a friend lets call him bill.
now bills a bit of a playa and he is getting bored of his current gf is is prolly going to dump her soon. paul hangs out at bills house all the time and has become bills gfs emotional tampon and was ecstatic wen she said he was her best friend as if its a good thing. he sucks up to her all the fukin time its disgusting like bill will be talking to his gf about ppl they know and bill will say nah i dont like him hes a wannabe lad (we're all teens here) and hes gf will say i think hes pretty cool ( i actually witnessed this). paul will turn around and say in a voice as if he was talking to a fukin child "oh hes a mad guy isnt he" basically agreeing to everything she says waiting on her hand and foot hes like a fuking puppy dog. now i really want to help paul cos hes a good friend and ive tried referring him to here but hes too lazy to read the stuff and he LITERALLY believes that because hes her best friend he will be able to get with her in a flash once bill has dumped her.

bottom line is is thee anything i can do to help hiom or just say i told you so once it all backfires

 

[MrS]

He'll only learn when he gets the mental foot up his ass.

 

[jonwon]

look i got this friend lets call him paul and he has a friend lets call him bill.
now bills a bit of a playa and he is getting bored of his current gf is is prolly going to dump her soon. paul hangs out at bills house all the time and has become bills gfs emotional tampon and was ecstatic wen she said he was her best friend as if its a good thing. he sucks up to her all the fukin time its disgusting like bill will be talking to his gf about ppl they know and bill will say nah i dont like him hes a wannabe lad (we're all teens here) and hes gf will say i think hes pretty cool ( i actually witnessed this). paul will turn around and say in a voice as if he was talking to a fukin child "oh hes a mad guy isnt he" basically agreeing to everything she says waiting on her hand and foot hes like a fuking puppy dog. now i really want to help paul cos hes a good friend and ive tried referring him to here but hes too lazy to read the stuff and he LITERALLY believes that because hes her best friend he will be able to get with her in a flash once bill has dumped her.

bottom line is is thee anything i can do to help hiom or just say i told you so once it all backfires

no but there maybe a means to help you!

Your friend is acting like a royal pric* in all fairness, i go by the method of dont mow another mans lawn, especcially a mates lawn there are plenty off women out there, no need to try it on with mates GF.

One:
She is still dating your mate and as not been dumped YET:
So i question your motivation to get your mate laid with your other mates girl, seems a bit fuc*ed to me tbh.

Two:
Playa or not i am sure he wont apprecciate his mates gaming his women, even if its AFC stuff, the fact still stands he is gaming her in his pathetic way and he as a possibility of getting with her, but only when she is fuc*ed up from being dumped by said playa guy and is on the rebound. (that is unless he keeps up with emotional support and does note escalate).

Three:
Said play if he is a playa he will see what your mate is doing and since he as a higher character, does not say anything since he is a mate, but i would expect him to not like it at all, this is the true mate here.

Four:
Simply trying it on with a mates GF is an unwritten rule that most guys adopt, if you cant trust your mates who the fuc* can you trust.

Personnaly if i was playa guy i would drop this chump since having him around is not positive at all.

I have mates in the past game women i have been seeing, its a good indication of where there prioritys lie! Yes i have dropped mates for doing it, I mean i want and have mates that i would trust to sleep in the same bed as a GF and that to me is a true mate not some AFC gaming an easy target GF that enters his life through a mate.

 

[dj ben2]

trust me the playa guy knows its happening and im pretty sure he thinks its hilarous as he knows how women work and knows that paul is digging his own grave and i dont think he holds it against him at all.