"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Any advice for a college freshman?

Aegis

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So I'm 18, never had a girlfriend, still a virgin, and I started college about a week ago. Most of my friends are either out of state or busy, so I really don't get the chance to go out and do stuff anymore. When it comes to meeting new people, I just don't have much to say unless I either meet them through a friend or have some sort of purpose in talking to them.

So for the past week or so, I've just been going to and from class without anything to do. Anyone have any advice on how I can get an actual social life?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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donjuan87

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Join a Fraternity.

Get to class early and talk to people.

If your roommate's cool, go out with him some night.

Do you drink? Most people in college do.
 

oakraiderz2

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Go to parties and get drunk. Freshman girls are horny as fvck. So much freedom that they turn into little slvts...gotta love it.
 

Scorched

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oakraiderz2 said:
Freshman girls are horny as fvck. So much freedom that they turn into little slvts...gotta love it.
I never thought about it that way.
HAHAHAHAHAHA
Screw community college!
 

Badmannaz

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yea never fall in love with a slVtt........seriously.........seriously!!


Dude just go around your dorm floor and f*ckin walk-in someone's room and say hi...it's not hard....college is different...nobody knows nobody...but everyone has a handful of friends...and a bunch of mutherfockerz they just so happen to see...but u keep goin the way your goin it's not gonna be such a great semester
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Jenkies

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Yeah take these guy's advice, I was in your exact same shoes two years ago when I went to college.

Basically I was 18, was still a virgin, I had zero game and didn't even try to work on it, I just felt like I didn't fit in, I don't think I was really ready for college at that point. I pretty much wasted my entire freshman year, and didn't bang a single chick. Don't make this same mistake. I changed sophomore year and started to make a lot more friends and finally f*cked a few girls. Now I'm an entirely different person than I was at the beginning of freshman year of college.
 

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Hey man, I just got into university a week ago too. From what I'm seeing so far, people are friendly and accepting in the beginning. As time pass by, social groups quickly form and people are not as open. It's way better to meet people as soon as possible. Just remember a lot of girls are like you, without a lot of friends and lonely, so be assertive and don't be shy about it.
 
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