I know that most of the people on this board have suffered from anxiety at one point or another. The thing that most of you probably don't know is that in a suprising amount of cases anxiety is really a misdiagnosed caffiene habbit. If you suffer from it and happen to drink coffee (or tea or caffinated soft drinks) try abstaining for a couple of weeks and see how you feel. It made a HELL of a difference for me. Its not gonna be easy even if you drink as little as a couple of cups a day. The withdrawls will give you persistant headaches and will make you feel very tired. However if you stick through it for just a couple of days you'll find that you will be anxiety free and full of energy!
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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