Anxiety, just embrace it

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Reykhel

Banned

Apr 18, 2016

CuddleJunkie said:
I know, but I have this thing due to my education when I want to go through everything in one sit. But these books, like that one you told me the other day (it's being awesome btw) have a lot of things to put into practice, so I really should go slower through them... But man, this **** about gaining influence powers is addicting as fvck.

I get what you mean. Yeah that one that you're referring to is kind of like a "personal development project" within itself. But you can still have your "regular" list along side that if you wanted.

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.