mahon83050
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I have an anxiety disorder, however i like to drinl coffee in the morning. I know you guys are not doctors, but i know Caffeine is a stimulant. I was wondering if i should stay away from caffeine completely. Thanks
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Originally posted by DIESEL:
I always love it how dudes with medical conditions come on these boards asking us for what amounts to medical advice.
If you're on medication for this condition, WHY THE FUKK ARE YOU ASKING US?? You'd be an idiot to follow what any of us have to say, last I checked there are no MDs that regularly post on this forum.
GO ASK YOUR DOCTOR.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Caffiene blocks serotonin...really? i have never heard that one. I also heard pasta helps with serotonin...is this true?Originally posted by Monkey:
Just avoid caffiene as much as possible. It has no nutritional value whatsoever.
It actually blocks the effects of serotonin and melatonin causing restless sleep and iritability.
It has to do with the carbs, not the pasta.Originally posted by mahon83050:
Caffiene blocks serotonin...really? i have never heard that one. I also heard pasta helps with serotonin...is this true?