"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Anxiety and Caffiene

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I have an anxiety disorder, however i like to drinl coffee in the morning. I know you guys are not doctors, but i know Caffeine is a stimulant. I was wondering if i should stay away from caffeine completely. Thanks
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I always love it how dudes with medical conditions come on these boards asking us for what amounts to medical advice.

If you're on medication for this condition, WHY THE FUKK ARE YOU ASKING US?? You'd be an idiot to follow what any of us have to say, last I checked there are no MDs that regularly post on this forum.

GO ASK YOUR DOCTOR.
 

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Originally posted by DIESEL:
I always love it how dudes with medical conditions come on these boards asking us for what amounts to medical advice.

If you're on medication for this condition, WHY THE FUKK ARE YOU ASKING US?? You'd be an idiot to follow what any of us have to say, last I checked there are no MDs that regularly post on this forum.

GO ASK YOUR DOCTOR.


No ****...I know most of you guys are not M.D's, but maybe some of you are health freaks and would no some pointers.
 

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For some reason, caffeine relaxes me. Of course physically I'm stimulated, but mentally I'm very relaxed when I take it.
 

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Just avoid caffiene as much as possible. It has no nutritional value whatsoever.

It actually blocks the effects of serotonin and melatonin causing restless sleep and iritability.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by Monkey:
Just avoid caffiene as much as possible. It has no nutritional value whatsoever.

It actually blocks the effects of serotonin and melatonin causing restless sleep and iritability.
Caffiene blocks serotonin...really? i have never heard that one. I also heard pasta helps with serotonin...is this true?
 

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Originally posted by mahon83050:
Caffiene blocks serotonin...really? i have never heard that one. I also heard pasta helps with serotonin...is this true?

It has to do with the carbs, not the pasta.

Instead of drinking coffee, start drinking Green tea. Green tea contains a relaxing amino acid called L-theanine. Do a search
if you want to know more. I just picked up some L-theanine in pill form. Going to try it right now. Ill post if i feel any difference...


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