"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Antidepressant Taper and Withdrawal

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Been on Deanxit since 2020 March, 1 pill a day. Started tapering since 2021 August through December. Gradually going down from taking 1 every 2 days, 3 and now 10.

Massive progress due to discovering the RP and Rollo inspiring me to get my **** together. I am not depressed or anxious anymore and feels better than ever.

But withdrawal is starting to kick in and I can't fall asleep, once I manage to sleep it's straight 10 hours without any issue. But that is if I can fall asleep to begin with.

Any thoughts on how I can relief this? I am fixing myself by working out 3 days a week now and learning Japanese everyday but I can't perform well if I don't got no rest.

Help me bros.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Well since some of the deanixit side effects are drowsiness and sleepiness, your body is probably trying to readjust itself. I would get some recommended natural sleep aid at the vitamin store, stay away from the pharm variety, and no physical activity before rack time …
Just got this, hope it works. Thanks again man.
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Been on Deanxit since 2020 March, 1 pill a day. Started tapering since 2021 August through December. Gradually going down from taking 1 every 2 days, 3 and now 10.

Massive progress due to discovering the RP and Rollo inspiring me to get my **** together. I am not depressed or anxious anymore and feels better than ever.

But withdrawal is starting to kick in and I can't fall asleep, once I manage to sleep it's straight 10 hours without any issue. But that is if I can fall asleep to begin with.

Any thoughts on how I can relief this? I am fixing myself by working out 3 days a week now and learning Japanese everyday but I can't perform well if I don't got no rest.

Help me bros.
Proud of you for making an effort to be less chemical/drug dependent. Two things:

1) https://www.artofmanliness.com/health-fitness/health/get-better-sleep/

and

2) Look up "neuroplasticity". Try to learn some methods on how to rewire your brain naturally and avoid any drug depency. A good book to read is "Switch On Your Brain" by Dr. Carol Leaf. It has quite a bit of bible references but you can either recognize the wisdom or use theshoppping cart method.

Keep us updated on how you do.


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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The jump from 3 days to 10 days per pills is giving me headaches and making me less productive. Gotta backtrack and try 5 days instead and go from there. Thanks all.



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