"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Antichrist Superstar: Part One

The Antichrist_Star

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The above title (and basis of my screen name) is derived from Marilyn Manson's album Antichrist Superstar. Though the album goes into a number of topics, the major theme of it is 'transformation.' It is about a man, whose various life experiences (from sex, drugs, and general depravity binges in New Orleans, to discovering his Grandfather's basement filled with women's pantyhoes and bestaility porn) aid in shaping him into the man (or monster, depending on who you ask) that he is today (which, in this case, would be 1996). When thinking about it from this angle, the handle not only suited me, but every single member of this forum. After all... we're not here for our health, to waste our time. Granted, we may find other uses for this forum in the long run, but in the beginning we are all here for one reason and one reason alone... to get some ass. :)

After having plenty of time to reflect on the topic, and being that it is currently four in the morning, I figure what better time to slowly re-intergrate myself back into the high school forum that discussing my favorite topic and hopefully helping some people in the process? :) So, now that all of the newer people (who mostly dominate the forum now) have been formally introduced to the person typically known as 'The Matrix: Reloaded', let's get to the good **** shall we? :)

As I have grown older, I'll be honest with you... I hate taking advice from men about women. Because to be quite honest, even most of the guys who know a lot about women (I like to throw myself in that pile) are only at the tip of the iceberg. So, what I like to do now is generate theories about women on my own and then share these theories with the few select women in my life, who's opinions about women I actually respect. Because let's face something else... most women know **** about themselves. :) With that said, I now present you with a few things that I have learned recently, most of which may (or may not) come as a surprise to you.

Looks... can't hurt, but will not guarantee the pants:

Now, do not get me wrong. Being the so called (as I have been countless times) the 'metrosexual' that I am, I believe that how you present yourself to women is very, very important. I'm not telling you what to wear, how to wear it, what to do with your hair, or suggesting that you have as many lotions, body scrubs, or shower gels that I have (don't ask), but what I am telling you is this... the way you present and take care of yourself tells a woman a lot about how much self-worth and confidence you have (which is why it is assumed that men like Brad Pitt have a lot of confidence).

That being said, the bottom line is Brad Pitt (in spite of the way he looks) would not be ****ing women like Angelina Jolie and Jennifer Aniston if he was not famous... period. And I am about to tell you why. You see... men and women are two entirely different creatures when it comes to attraction (in a variety of ways). Men are visual creatures, ergo, the better the visual is (how hot the girl is), the higher our attraction may tend to be. This is the reason why you often see that hot ass girl with men drooling all over her even though she has the brain of a paper towel (Jessica Simpson comes to mind). Because of our nature, we are more prone to gloss over things like personality or intelligence if a girl has a nice rack, and pretty blond hair.

Women, however, are very, very different. Granted, good looks may make her more likely to choose you for a date than say, the geek who sits in the front row... but I'm not talking about getting dates here, I'm talking about either getting ass, or getting a relationship, and quite frankly... that's an entirely different ballgame. Unlike men, women are stimuli oriented. Women need to be touched, teased, (mentally and physically), and manipulated (moreso on a psychological level but physical as well) to become attracted enough to a man that they are willing to **** him. In Brad Pitt's case the 'stimuli' is easy. He's famous, he's rich, and movies (in general, especially in many roles that he has played) tend to evoke a very strong emotional response in people. Great movies, 'grab' you, and for a moment, you forget that it's real...

You see... women love **** like that. They are attracted to him because of the celebrity that he has and the power (not to mention) the planes, trains, automobiles, clothes, and jewelry that celebrity can buy with it. Couple that with his powerful roles in movies like Fight Club (a sosuave favorite), Se7en (one of my personal favorites) and Troy, and women fall head over heels. And it is all of that that women are truly attracted to... the looks only aided him in being more 'famous' than other great actors. This example works very well on a high school level as well. Use this example next week in school if you get the chance:

Take a good looking guy, with horrible social status and find out how many girls he gets. Then... I want you to find a decent looking guy, with very high social status, and find out how many girls he gets. Next... take guys of equal attractiveness, one with bad social status, and one with high to moderate social status... who gets the most girls in this case? I am willing to bet that in most cases, the men with the higher status will win out everytime (guys like sports players, or class clowns). Why? Because men are attracted to looks whilte women are attracted to external stimuli , which in this case would be social status.

So remember, taking care of how you look is very important. However, with women it is what you bring to the table (be it status, money, intelligence, wit, etc.) that will have you sliding into home.

This ran a lot longer than I anticipated, so I will get to my other musings later.

So long... and good night. :)

AS
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Good **** as always man, good to see ya hanging around.

You have hit the nail right on the head. In high school.. honestly, social status is ALL you need. I got buff, learnt how to get wild, and now im getting plenty of ass. If you read my post "Yes - sammo can get girls too" you will see that nearly 100% of those lays where a result of my social status.

My name gets around and girls want to **** me. Let me rephrase myself, girls want to **** my reputation. In the end though, it's just fools game. When i leave high school, which is approaching fast my reputation will end with it. I am going to have to rely on another form of 'external stimuli'. At heart, im still a chump, examining the science of it is the only way to do this ;)

Sure, get a reputation if you want some easy ass, but remember:

It's just a short term solution to a long term problem.
 

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Good post AC, I too would like to become a metrosexual to become as cool as you. :p I just wrote a post on getting to get a higher social status and hadn't read your post before I wrote it . Strange isn't it? My post is inter(intra?)personal though...(you know my post is speaking to me or whatever.) And I didn't know you changed your username again. Got pressured again? haha.

Havn't talked to you awhile, but good post as always...
 

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Originally posted by Sammo
Good **** as always man, good to see ya hanging around.

You have hit the nail right on the head. In high school.. honestly, social status is ALL you need. I got buff, learnt how to get wild, and now im getting plenty of ass. If you read my post "Yes - sammo can get girls too" you will see that nearly 100% of those lays where a result of my social status.

My name gets around and girls want to **** me. Let me rephrase myself, girls want to **** my reputation. In the end though, it's just fools game. When i leave high school, which is approaching fast my reputation will end with it. I am going to have to rely on another form of 'external stimuli'. At heart, im still a chump, examining the science of it is the only way to do this ;)

Sure, get a reputation if you want some easy ass, but remember:

It's just a short term solution to a long term problem.
You are absolutely right about that last part... it is a short term solution to a long term... but hey, it works. Whatever you move on to (be it university or whatever else) it will be the same thing... social status will get you more ass than almost anything else.

To Void: You don't need to be a fruit like me to get ass... ;) I'm just a really, really, strange kid who grew up with far too many women when I was younger. :)

As for your last point, I don't succumb to pressure, I just like my screen name to reflect how I am feeling at the moment, which essentially is a very, very large transformation.

AS
 

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nice post... lol i grew up with many women too so even i'm kinda metrosexual (with good looks), but i gotta work on my game.. it sucks. oh yeah the song antichrist superstar rocks
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Antichrist_Star

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Originally posted by sinner
nice post... lol i grew up with many women too so even i'm kinda metrosexual (with good looks), but i gotta work on my game.. it sucks. oh yeah the song antichrist superstar rocks
Yessssssss... the album is even better. :cool:

I grew up with probably (in total) 12+ women... I don't make excuses though. :)
 

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Hey,

You say men are attracted to looks when women are attracted to "external stimuli."

I'll use myself as an example here (everything is true): I am decent looking (although only 5'6"), decent muscle build (not ripped but not "nothing either") and I have a good personality (and I'm also a Senior). However, people tell me I am easily the most popular kid in the school (as in well known) and I've won HC Prince twice. I also feel that I preent myself well to others and act in a laid-back, professional matter. Yet I haven't had the best of luck with the ladies.

How can you disprove what I said, with the info I provided (in terms of girls attracted to external stimuli)?

P.S. The rest of your post looks good. Also, I'm not trying to brag on the whole popularity part - it's just things people have told me.
 

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I don't think the point is that if you're popular girls will take off their shirts for you. You still need to do your part as a man, Comeback kid.
 

The Comeback Kid

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Originally posted by LikRetsam
I don't think the point is that if you're popular girls will take off their shirts for you. You still need to do your part as a man, Comeback kid.
I get what you're saying. I feel I have improved my "game" in the aspects of confidence and attitiude (more laid-back).

I never thought being popular made u a ladies' man . Actually, I thought it was just the hot guys that got the ladies. I'm not really loud or ever get real drunk or anything like that. A lot of the big football players do that, and they're the ones who get the girls.

Hopefuly, while being myself AND improving my DJ game, I can have some similar express. I don't want to be someone else to get it either - I just want to do it "my way".
 

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Originally posted by Mctwist4
Nice Post. Glad to see someone more experienced on here. This forum seems like 24/7 AFC fest lately.
how do i look at a girl so that she knows i am wanting her to kiss me ?;)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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