"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Anti-afc songs here!

Marvin Gaye

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Marvin Gaye said:
Thank you SeymourCake, for introducing me to an amazing song.
You're welcome. :)
 
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This might be considered "pimping" to some of you but it's just a demonstration of high value.

"Game So Easy" (1st verse)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P2DoSXDdKdk

I saw somebody post the Hall and Oates song but here's Mac Dre
"I Can't Go For that"
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KWHNlDPSFKY

"Chop That Hoe"
"I don't know no algebra but I know how to get dough outta her
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MHDRl978tKc

"She Neva Seen"
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=72HNX6bJ2ag


Saw somebody posted "Not My Job" earlier, props on that
 

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A lot of angry boys on here. Wow.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AbekPLjHZak
None of you have seen this hit. Pure Italian style. Teaches you that if you are Italian dj's and end up at a Spanish amusement park that schoolgirls will chase you around the park. This is how the s--- goes down if you have the right attitude.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Seymour.. great collection of songs there. Loved that you included some Lupe too. Like your style, man.
 
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Adonis PUA Trainer said:
This might be considered "pimping" to some of you but it's just a demonstration of high value.

"Game So Easy" (1st verse)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P2DoSXDdKdk

I saw somebody post the Hall and Oates song but here's Mac Dre
"I Can't Go For that"
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KWHNlDPSFKY

"Chop That Hoe"

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MHDRl978tKc

"She Neva Seen"
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=72HNX6bJ2ag


Saw somebody posted "Not My Job" earlier, props on that
Just make sure you listen to each of these from the top down
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e6P_RXS-zYc

The greatest line in hiphop on game hands down (second verse) :
When the Remi's in the system, ain't no tellin
Will I **** em will I diss em, that's what these hoes yellin
I'm a pimp by blood, not relation
Y'all still chase em, I'll replace em,
And 2 Short killed it. Fake game vs real game.

I had a whole lotta *****es in my lifetime
I been blessed with the game always say the right lines
Had a few prostitues and if you knew the truth
They're like pimps, you can't let em do it to you
She ain't no sucker, I know that ***** man
She wanna be a Pretty Woman lovin a rich man
Now here you come, drop top ridin
You ain't no pimp fake nigga stop lyin
***** makes money, stick to the business
Think about the real mother****ers that live it
Street life, pimp ****, make the hoe respect the game
You bought her diamonds and cars, trick that's a shame
Say what you want, but I still figured
She left you cause you couldn't be, like them real niggaz
She was a hustler by nature, and you was just faker
than the average symps, found a badder pimp
Too $hort
 

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e6P_RXS-zYc

The greatest line in hiphop on game hands down (second verse) :
When the Remi's in the system, ain't no tellin
Will I **** em will I diss em, that's what these hoes yellin
I'm a pimp by blood, not relation
Y'all still chase em, I'll replace em,
And 2 Short killed it. Fake game vs real game.

I had a whole lotta *****es in my lifetime
I been blessed with the game always say the right lines
Had a few prostitues and if you knew the truth
They're like pimps, you can't let em do it to you
She ain't no sucker, I know that ***** man
She wanna be a Pretty Woman lovin a rich man
Now here you come, drop top ridin
You ain't no pimp fake nigga stop lyin
***** makes money, stick to the business
Think about the real mother****ers that live it
Street life, pimp ****, make the hoe respect the game
You bought her diamonds and cars, trick that's a shame
Say what you want, but I still figured
She left you cause you couldn't be, like them real niggaz
She was a hustler by nature, and you was just faker
than the average symps, found a badder pimp
Too $hort
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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King of Anti-AFC songs...

And the winner is....Body Count - Evil D1ck

This song is so banned on Internet that if they catch you uploading it, you will be so banned that you would have to wear ski mask when logging on gmail.

I am wearing a ski mask....absolutely not an evil song

Another song from Body Count....Bring it to pain
link...tune it up and cops will certainly arrive

In Pop/Rock shyt category the winner is Puddle Of Mudd - She Hates Me

And my all time favourite....2 Live Crew - Me So Horny (Uncensored)
 

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The one track I usually listen to when "going out" for the night, and the ringtone I use for all the girls in my phone that I'm dating/banging/looking to bang: All About You by 2Pac.

Puts me in the right mindset immediately.

It was true-to-life back in my "club days", too...I would go to a nightclub and see a group of girls, then next weekend I'd be out at a bar in a different part of town...and see the SAME GIRLS.

In fact...every girl I date, every girl I bang...in the end, they're all just girls. They don't mean anything. I WISH I could find a girl who was different...but I never have. So I enjoy them for what they are.


What else DJ/anti-AFC?

Jay-Z - 99 Problems (but a b!tch aint one!!)

Some of the stuff by R. Kelly is very romantic but at the same time dominant...less about kissing ass and more about genuine sexual attraction

You want something to just break you out of a down-mood brought on by a chumpish attitude, listen to some GodSmack.
 

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squirrels said:
All About You by 2Pac.

It was true-to-life back in my "club days", too...I would go to a nightclub and see a group of girls, then next weekend I'd be out at a bar in a different part of town...and see the SAME GIRLS.
Great song, and hilarious skit about the same girls.

squirrels said:
Some of the stuff by R. Kelly is very romantic but at the same time dominant...less about kissing ass and more about genuine sexual attraction
I'm sure it goes without saying, but nothing is less AFC than peeing on a chick.
 

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Nine Inch Nails-Closer
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ccY25Cb3im0
(Just a great song about fvcking, from a manly and primal perspective.)
Heh, heh, heh...

I'm always kidding around that this is gonna be "my wedding song" (not that I would wanna get married but hey, I like to fuck with people!)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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