"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Answering Machine Date

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Iv'e just met this hottie (lets just say a 9) at a coffee shop in my local town. I introduced myself feeling confident, happy, looking in her eyes, talking smoothly, and smiling. We exchanged dialog for about 5 minutes then i had gotten her number and left to go back home (even though i had totally forgoten about my coffee). It went perfectly. But my question is What do i say to her if she doesnt pick up the phone and is an answering machine? I dont wanna seem creepy and hang up then she could have my number and know it was me. Im not sure what to do. This is just a senario i dont know what to do only if she dont pick up. Thanks
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hey [her name], this is coolcat. Just wanted to see if you can come along with me to see the hockey game (or whatever). Call me back (add number if req.)

Yep.
 
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From what i have saw you shouldn't leave a message.
Try calling the next day.
 
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