"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Answering Machine Date

CoolCat5191

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Iv'e just met this hottie (lets just say a 9) at a coffee shop in my local town. I introduced myself feeling confident, happy, looking in her eyes, talking smoothly, and smiling. We exchanged dialog for about 5 minutes then i had gotten her number and left to go back home (even though i had totally forgoten about my coffee). It went perfectly. But my question is What do i say to her if she doesnt pick up the phone and is an answering machine? I dont wanna seem creepy and hang up then she could have my number and know it was me. Im not sure what to do. This is just a senario i dont know what to do only if she dont pick up. Thanks
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Hey [her name], this is coolcat. Just wanted to see if you can come along with me to see the hockey game (or whatever). Call me back (add number if req.)

Yep.
 

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From what i have saw you shouldn't leave a message.
Try calling the next day.
 
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