Answering call from girl that calls every night?

[AB500]

I met a girl last week and somewhere along the line we exchanged phone numbers. Right now it is going pretty good but I'm starting to feel that if I continue down the path I'm on right now the attraction will be lost. Here are a few questions I've been a little unsure of:

1) She has been calling me every night. What is my best bet with these calls? Right now I answer them and I try to get off the phone with her within 20 minutes (I am a little weak in that regard). Should I ignore half the calls or just not answer them all together? I don't mind them but I don't want to settle into a cycle where we talk every night, something tells me it's not a good idea.

2) There is another guy after the girl right now, he hugs her and kinos her a lot. His game is rather sloppy but he is a presistent annoyence. At this point I pretty much ignore him or avoid her when he's around, a lot better then confronting him or complaining to the girl about him IMO. She isn't going out with anyone right now so I guess she is fair game. What should I do about this?

3) How often should I see her during school / talk to her / text her? Right now we breifly chat and hug once or twice every day during school and text message each other a lot (right as I write this she text messages me trying to make conversation about her job).

4) She keeps asking me questions about who I've made out with in the past and other matters like that, I take it this is a good thing because she is curious as to my past relationships and therefore is evaluating how good of a partner I would be. Right now most of her questions have been met with c/f and leave her without answers. I should keep this pratice up correct?

The attraction is there I just need a few answers to questions I can't completely answer myself. This post is a little AFCish but it's hard to answer these questions myself when I have a lot of feeling towards her.

Edit: And as to not appear like a total AFC I'll add that today I took her out into town, up to subway and a few random stores. I will probably take her to a small dance our school is having friday or at least hang out with her. I've been working on isolating her because I think it's my best bet to getting more phyical but it isn't easy without a liscense or car.

 

[girlsarecrazy]

Don't worry about the other guy! You are the one she's calling 24/7. You need to play the busy guy. Don't answer all the phone calls. Delay when replying to text msgs. If she's ever asks "What's up?" or "What are you doing?", do not say the word, "nothing". Always seem busy. Make sure you talk in person when hanging out more than on the phone. If she's calling you like this, she has a huge interest level in you.

My girl usually called me 3 times a day. Don't ignore her. Pick it up and say, "Let me call you back in a little bit". She'll think of you non-stop until you call back. If she can't take the wait, she'll call again. Then you know her level of interest is through the roof! If her interest level is high, she cannot get over you quickly. It will take time. Build up more and more attraction and finally hang out after school.

I suggest you ask her to go to dinner/lunch or somewhere fun. The best thing to do is to hang around one of your houses and watch a scary movie and cuddle in a blanket. Good luck man!

 

[AB500]

Build up more and more attraction and finally hang out after school.

Heh, done that. Last weekend I hung out with her at the school play (she was part of the setup crew so I got there a little early, during the play she sat with her head in my lap and we cuddled) and today we went up to subway. Like the idea of telling her I'll call her back, didn't think of it before.

The movie idea is a good one, for the past month hanging out at my house has kinda been a bad idea because the main hangout room is being redone but that is nearing completion with furnature arriving today and a working TV. In a month or two we will be installing a projector and surround sound and it'll be a great place to watch movies, right now it's just a 27" TV so it's not a great experience. Then again, when your with a girl who's really paying attention to the movie.

 

[shydude]

She calls you everyday, that is annoying. I would ignored most of the calls, I am a pretty busy dude, so talking to women for 20 minutes is a waste, and its girlish. What YOU should do is do more kino, ignore her, play around with her. One day kiss her, next day ignore her, Play little games with her, she will be confused and then YOU won the game. I think you understood what i said. Its all common sense, these things happen to everyone and everywhere, and you should never be confused by this, more serious things will happen, especially when you get older.