"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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B: On Friday I'm going to do xy. I'll be heading out at 7pm.
HB: Ok. What do you mean by that? ;)

She knows what I meant (that I want her to come) but she wants to have a little fun. How would you answer? On one hand I feel she's calling me a pvssy for not asking directly, but my original intent was to show that her coming or not wasn't going to affect me going or not (which is true).

Met her at a party. Invited her to come out to some parties the other night but she said she was staying in because she was tired after 3 nights of going out. Basically if she doesn't come on Friday, I'll move on.
 

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i honestly did not see where in the text message that you told her to join in and come with you. ask her if she wants to go or say what time will you be here.
 

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Some in another forum said:
"Be ready by 7:30"

I think they meant 7, so I went with that, but it's along the same lines as darkjedi's. Will update when she responds.

thanks
 

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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

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benjiprice said:
Some in another forum said:
"Be ready by 7:30"

I think they meant 7, so I went with that, but it's along the same lines as darkjedi's. Will update when she responds.

thanks
Good recovery (from what you said originally), provided she will believe you didn't need 30 minutes+ to think of that answer. Next time, I'd just invite her. Too much of this DJ stuff will have you over-thinking things.
 
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