"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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J89

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its bull****

lift with correct form ad ur all good
 

Quagmire911

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Daddy The Pimp said:
thanks guys !!

Any more opinions ?? Anyone else heard that you can stop growing process by lifting weights ?
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO! :box:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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mintxx

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your height is affected by genetics and nutrition in early life. in later life it's only affected by things like land mines and bear traps.
 

I-tallionStallion

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YOU WILL NOT GET SHORTER.

Please explain to me how you could possibly prove that. IF ANYTHING...you get BIGGER like in all those commercials when we were kids about milk making us taller haha.
 
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mintxx

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brett012 said:
of course the people who do work out a lot will either deny getting a bit shorter, or not even notice it. I have a friend who works out a lot say that he feels like he got shorter. I think I'm on kickureface's side for now.
ah mate i think he was being sarcastic... are you being serious?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mad Manic

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Daddy The Pimp said:
im not saying to get shorter .

Im saying that is it possible to stop growing . Not getting shorter but stop growing more .
My stepdad says when he was young he was doing weights, it stunted his growth, then he stopped it and he started growing quickly. But the latter doesn't work after a certain age as the growth plates fuse.

MM
 

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brett012 said:
^It looks like you and I are the only ones with some sort of evidence. All the other idiots just say "NO IT DOESN'T YOU GUYS ARE STUPID!" My friend who lifts weights a lot said he got shorter. Once you start lifting weights, you'll stay your normal height, I'm pretty sure. If you play sports you will get taller than if you were to just lift weights.
what? are you serious?
your "evidence" is that your friend said he got shorter when he lifted weights? wtf? get some scientific evidence mang

get your lazy bum off sosuave and do google searches, there are tons of articles on this
 

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I've been lifting since the age of 14. Several doctors told me I would grow to be 6'4" or taller and I'm only 5'11"...but I'm satisfied with my height.
 

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if you do heavy squats and deads and standing presses with good form (note heavy and good form) very often you will get some degree of spinal compression, which is unavoidable just as sitting down and walking around compresses your spine. in that case, just do some hangs if you're that paranoid.
if you are doing moderate weight or just a little over body weight, i'd say there's no problem.
if you have **** form, you're your bones and joints will have an uneven distribution of forces, and then that's where most people's problem lie, especially those who think you get shorter from lifting :p
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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you'll only stunt your growth if you masturbate with your eyes open before you are 18.

otherwise you are fine.
 

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I've been lifting for 3 months, and I've grown to 5"9.5 from 5"8 in a month.
 
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