"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Another vent....

Pakwah

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Yeah i know my last few posts have just been me venting. I'll stop soon, just being newly single, have alot of frustration, anger, hurt, try to channel it and sometimes it ends up in the wrong places.

I have been in contact with my ex, and right now what is pissing me off is watching her and thinking - why do girls always want to be wooed by guys, swept off their feet, and feel they don't have to do jack **** to return the favor?? Not talking about sex, but how much can one guy give before he says - **** this - i give and give and give and i ain't getting **** in return. yeah i am aware of the censors, sorry.

My first love i would have done anything for....so i guess it depends on how much you care for someone....I'm just sick of the take take take girls who expect to do nothing and get everything.

Are there any nice looking, generous girls out there??
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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TheChicGeek

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Ya, sometimes girls hurt you. It sucks. The way I see it, I would be the same if I were in their shoes, but that doesn't mean it doesn't hurt, I feel that. I have been trying to reverse that with one girl I know, it isn't looking pretty. It is in fact possible to do, but it is damn hard. You just have to push-pull at the right times in the right way to drive her nuts. I have yet to master that art and am humbled by those who can.
 

BigOlePappy

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Girls are like little animals. Expect nothing more than them than you would a guinea pig or gerbil.

There are quality women out there, however, if you expect quality in the smallest quantity from the average girl, you are leading yourself to misery.
 
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