"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Another test?

piri

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Straight to the point as usual ok?

Me and a girl I met at the club were dancing and she said she was so tired that she had to sit down.
She said she was really enjoying it and she was really loving to dance with me.
We started making out while we were sitting, and then she said she feel like dancing again.
I instantly said: "Me too! Let's go!". Then I got up and pulled her arm, but then she said: "But I'm so tired, I don't think I can dance anymore".

Me: "C'mon, only one more song".

She: "Ok, let's go".

And we started dancing again for hours, but I started wandering...
Was this another of those tests that girls put guys up to?

Another one:
I met a girl that should be like 25 or 26, and she was really interested in me.
When she asked my age (I'm 18), I did not tell her, so she asked one of my friends.
When she knew I was 18 she kept interested in me, but she was disappointed.
Was this another test? An age test?

Thanks
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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No tests.

Sounds like she was buzzed and so were you. As long as you had fun man, and it sounds like you did. Now if you wanted sex, that's a different story. You have to be a man, meaning take control of your surroundings and situation. If you want it, your body will react and you'll naturally escalate your game.

Let's see, you guys danced and made out too, and then...
"Dance again for hours" ????? As a guy I get tired if I dance to 3 songs, so that's like 15-20 minutes.

About the lady now, she asked your age because you appear younger than her. I can relate, at 27 I confuse the hell out of people, I can vary from 19-22. I don't know the REAL interest level, but it is a good sign. When a lady asks your age(showing interest), she feels some age difference...it could be any range...she just knows she's older than you, and needs to confirm it. Still a woman, girl, lady...all the same imho...YOU HAVE TO TAKE CONTROL AND INITIATIVE.


Most importantly, your 18! I call that great experience! The whole social thing and getting laid is not rocket science. It's all about experience, timing and luck. Here I am typing and responding to posts, but still I'm learning a lot about myself taking heed of other people's wisdom.
 

piri

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No, I was not interested in sex at that moment.

And don't worry about taking control of the situations. I already got that part of my game down. :D

That "dance for hours" was just an expression to tell you that we danced a lot.

Anyway, I was just wondering since I found out I couldn't see those test comming most of the times.

Thanks.
 
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