"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So in my previous post i talked about how my girl was testing me for insecurity and i passed basicailly.

So we're on the phone again and now she hardly brings the sex topic up because shes inexpierenced with it, so i take the lead. Anyways she's like "you know we dont have to do it all the time." so i just said "fine but your losing out."

I feel like she's testing me all the time!

Question.. We have been going out for 5 months now and the sexual convo is lacking on her end, how do i get her in the mood to talk sexually and i feel like im lacking in this because she doesnt speak much sexually, shes the nice girl kind.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DJsparky said:
Anyways she's like "you know we dont have to do it all the time." so i just said "fine but your losing out."

I feel like she's testing me all the time!
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Two things, first I'm guessing your need to improve your sexual techniques. Learn how to satisfy her alot more. Read the bible under sexual techniques, they are a great help. You can never stop learning how to improve. Don't be shy about this, it will be the greatest thing you can do for your sex life and hers.

Secondly she needs to feel like she has more value to you than simply as a sex object. You need to show her a little more affection. I might get flamed for this but there is a fine line especially when your in a committed relationship. Make her realize that she is more than just a piece of meat to you so that you can have an amazing time together sexually.
 
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