"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DJsparky

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So in my previous post i talked about how my girl was testing me for insecurity and i passed basicailly.

So we're on the phone again and now she hardly brings the sex topic up because shes inexpierenced with it, so i take the lead. Anyways she's like "you know we dont have to do it all the time." so i just said "fine but your losing out."

I feel like she's testing me all the time!

Question.. We have been going out for 5 months now and the sexual convo is lacking on her end, how do i get her in the mood to talk sexually and i feel like im lacking in this because she doesnt speak much sexually, shes the nice girl kind.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

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She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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DJsparky said:
Anyways she's like "you know we dont have to do it all the time." so i just said "fine but your losing out."

I feel like she's testing me all the time!
Two things, first I'm guessing your need to improve your sexual techniques. Learn how to satisfy her alot more. Read the bible under sexual techniques, they are a great help. You can never stop learning how to improve. Don't be shy about this, it will be the greatest thing you can do for your sex life and hers.

Secondly she needs to feel like she has more value to you than simply as a sex object. You need to show her a little more affection. I might get flamed for this but there is a fine line especially when your in a committed relationship. Make her realize that she is more than just a piece of meat to you so that you can have an amazing time together sexually.
 
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