"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ANOTHER SUGGESTION - Forum about Appearance , Style etc.

What you think about having Appearance/Style/Fashion Forum


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Daddy The Pimp

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I would like to have forum about Fashion , Style , Appearance , Hairstyles , Accesories to wear etc. for DJ's where we could post pic's and telling stuff about these things .

We all need sometimes transition or changes in our appearance and style . And sometimes we could get some advices from our DJ Friends that have great taste .

This sh!t would be pretty useful .



Please guys vote what you thing :D .

With mad respect

Daddy The Pimp :D
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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lookyoung

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affliction t shirts.
Guess and buffalo jeans
For gym shoes pumas
For dress shoes anything that looks good.
Cologne I have to go with armani code.
Jackets I have a j crew and Calvin klien both of them I love



Certain jeans such as the brand name 7 will not fit me because there inseam is 33 standard I believe. Even some buffalo jeans have only 33 length. I am 5"11 but too short to wear those lol. I guess they want guys only 6"1 and up to wear them.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Magma

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LostAndConfused said:
bump: kinowear is helpful but a forum here not only could post up tips, but it could also deal with individual interests in fashion.
I can see your point. I've perused the kinowear forum, and some of the guys are a little TOO into fashion. Almost to the point of being ghey and insecure (Style critiques and "What do you think of this necklace?" for example). A fashion forum geared towards the DJ mentality might not be such a bad thing. I don't see the harm I guess.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Vice

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Just use Kinowear if you want to get style down to a science. It's great.
 
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