ACB Redeemer
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Okay so I saw a thread already like this but I wanted to post a different thread because my situation is kinda different...
So I saw this one girl at a club last weekend. Again, the usual stuff happened talked for a while, got a couple of dances, and VIP room. However, the way she was seemed really different than others. She was way more, passionate than others. She would stare longingly at me, get up really close with me so our noses were touching. At one point in the VIP room I called her out on it and asked her if she was cool with kissing, because most I thought weren't, but she said she was. I had seen dancers in that club before, and they have some pretty hard boundaries. They will dance, allow touching, but never fully make out with customers. I admittedly dropped a lot of money on her.
I go back this weekend and end up seeing her again. She still was amazing, and I got a couple of more dances from, as much as I can afford. We realistically spent the entire time just making out though. Now throughout these really intense makeout sessions, she has said things that seem flirtatious: things like "You seem different than other guys," or "**** you" in a playful way that lets me know I'm teasing her and it's working. So at the end of this last song I tell her that that's all I can afford. She tells me that she doesn't care and just wants to stay back here. I ask her if that will get me or her in trouble or how that works with the deskguy she's supposed to pay, and she says it's fine she doesn't want to leave. We spend the rest of the time making out until she gets called up to dance on the stage. When she hears her name she let's out a little sigh of regret, but she finds me afterwards at the bar and we just sit around and talk for a bit. At this point she's really clingy, wrapping her arm around mine and resting her head on my shoulder occasionally. We discuss our situation and "confusion". She claims that I make her feel in ways that other patrons haven't before. We go back to the private dance area several times and make out, and she doesn't charge me for it. At one point she straight said to me that she wants to **** me. At the end of this last session, I full on told her to meet me at my car outside the club at a nearby gas station.
She pulls up and I get in her car and we talk and kiss for a bit asking where to go from here. She says she doesn't know, but when I ask if she wants to hang out outside of the club she says she does want to. I say we should find a way to get in touch and she suggests email. When I ask her about if I could just get her phone number, she says that she's had this phone for a while (it's a flip) she doesn't have texting and she's really awkward on the phone. On top of it, the number is written on the back with a sticker. I tease her about it but we end up trading emails and phone numbers.
I have no idea how to feel. I'm a pretty cautious guy because I realize I sometimes fall head over heels way to quickly. I will say though that we've talked a lot about each other and our lives. She's told me she takes dance classes really close to where I live and talked to me about her struggles trying to get into this company in our city. We've talked about her family and her childhood as well. I learned that she was homeschooled and she has this really weird aversion to tendons. I found her on facebook and twitter and she tweeted two hours after we left something along the lines of how she doesn't know what to do or what to think and how she feels overwhelmed, which sorta parallels what she was telling me at the club as to where we go from here.
At the same time I'm totally cognizant that I am a patron and she is an employee, and I'm trying to determine if she is just trying to work me in order for me to spend more money on her. Somethings do seem weird to me. For instance she never gave me a straight answer in terms of where we go from here, although she has said she would like to hang out outside of the club. Also, the phone did seem REALLY strange (who writes their number on the back of their phone?). But on the other hand she was really willing to go back in the private dance area and make out for free.
Any suggestions or advice would be greatly appreciated.
So I saw this one girl at a club last weekend. Again, the usual stuff happened talked for a while, got a couple of dances, and VIP room. However, the way she was seemed really different than others. She was way more, passionate than others. She would stare longingly at me, get up really close with me so our noses were touching. At one point in the VIP room I called her out on it and asked her if she was cool with kissing, because most I thought weren't, but she said she was. I had seen dancers in that club before, and they have some pretty hard boundaries. They will dance, allow touching, but never fully make out with customers. I admittedly dropped a lot of money on her.
I go back this weekend and end up seeing her again. She still was amazing, and I got a couple of more dances from, as much as I can afford. We realistically spent the entire time just making out though. Now throughout these really intense makeout sessions, she has said things that seem flirtatious: things like "You seem different than other guys," or "**** you" in a playful way that lets me know I'm teasing her and it's working. So at the end of this last song I tell her that that's all I can afford. She tells me that she doesn't care and just wants to stay back here. I ask her if that will get me or her in trouble or how that works with the deskguy she's supposed to pay, and she says it's fine she doesn't want to leave. We spend the rest of the time making out until she gets called up to dance on the stage. When she hears her name she let's out a little sigh of regret, but she finds me afterwards at the bar and we just sit around and talk for a bit. At this point she's really clingy, wrapping her arm around mine and resting her head on my shoulder occasionally. We discuss our situation and "confusion". She claims that I make her feel in ways that other patrons haven't before. We go back to the private dance area several times and make out, and she doesn't charge me for it. At one point she straight said to me that she wants to **** me. At the end of this last session, I full on told her to meet me at my car outside the club at a nearby gas station.
She pulls up and I get in her car and we talk and kiss for a bit asking where to go from here. She says she doesn't know, but when I ask if she wants to hang out outside of the club she says she does want to. I say we should find a way to get in touch and she suggests email. When I ask her about if I could just get her phone number, she says that she's had this phone for a while (it's a flip) she doesn't have texting and she's really awkward on the phone. On top of it, the number is written on the back with a sticker. I tease her about it but we end up trading emails and phone numbers.
I have no idea how to feel. I'm a pretty cautious guy because I realize I sometimes fall head over heels way to quickly. I will say though that we've talked a lot about each other and our lives. She's told me she takes dance classes really close to where I live and talked to me about her struggles trying to get into this company in our city. We've talked about her family and her childhood as well. I learned that she was homeschooled and she has this really weird aversion to tendons. I found her on facebook and twitter and she tweeted two hours after we left something along the lines of how she doesn't know what to do or what to think and how she feels overwhelmed, which sorta parallels what she was telling me at the club as to where we go from here.
At the same time I'm totally cognizant that I am a patron and she is an employee, and I'm trying to determine if she is just trying to work me in order for me to spend more money on her. Somethings do seem weird to me. For instance she never gave me a straight answer in terms of where we go from here, although she has said she would like to hang out outside of the club. Also, the phone did seem REALLY strange (who writes their number on the back of their phone?). But on the other hand she was really willing to go back in the private dance area and make out for free.
Any suggestions or advice would be greatly appreciated.
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