"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Another Six Months... Are You With Me

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So what are you trying to say?

That I shouldn't lust women?

The reason I'm doing this is because I want more sex in my life. I don't think that what my DNA wants is wrong. I just want to share great sex with women instead of with my hand, fantasies or computer.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Crap... the feeling of failure(again!) sucks, and it's only gonna push me harder. I need to exercise mental discipline, Holy Spirit convict me.

--3rd June to 24th December--
Day 1/205

spider is right, you're gonna have to pull yourself away. I'm going to take random walks whenever I feel the urge, maybe get to sarge a little while at it.
 
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Take into account that bbestars motivation for not wacking is not to get laid. It's more of a moral crusade against "sin". Don't ask me to explain... it's a Christian thing.
 
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Are you just banning masturbation or blowing can you blow load during sex? Your balls must be like watermellons after 6 months!!!
 
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a catch 22 :)

I lasted 1 week the first time, then I got laid. Uhm, let's just say I came a little bit too fast. And, second time, same thing.

No masturbation = Sex, bad sex.

haha.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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We all are sinners, not because of masturbation or by porn, but our born natural state of man, our very own human nature.
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Pop Quiz, God-Boy...

If we are all sinners at birth, then does that mean babies who die prematurely go to Hell?

I wasnt gonna bring it up, but since you are clearly the authority on God I was curious...
 
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Remember to post your comments, experiences and to give support here.

Remember, read rule no.2. This isn't about just sweating like a pig under the temptation to mbate. Its about engaging in action, fix something, read, ¨sarge¨, wash your car and sweep your entrance, make some neighbor friends (btw, if you have time to spare, make friends with people that work in your area, many people are just there, and at least you 2 can talk).
 
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Thanks Sampendo

Ok people... this is it!!! We are goin to spark up this Journey in a few fleeting moments out of this addiction. Of what I have seen that last six months, the people who have failed and fallen unto the wayside, even the first weeks DID NOT have the right motivation, self discipline, unwilling to do what must be done, and stubborn to take a step of faith. Instead of getting up and starting over again, they have decided to be consumed by the lusts, and desires never to be heard of again.

*updated*

1. Reiki
2. bbestar
3. Holland -Day 1 as of the 2nd
4. three12
5. TheoTiger
6. Julian
7. spider_007 -Day 5 as of the 2nd
8. chickenlegs03
9. Dante3214
10. SIV
11. Upper
12. Nethel - Day 5 as of the 2nd

We can't wait any longer, its the 4th of June, lets go
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=90000&page=20
 
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bbestar said:
Thanks Sampendo

Ok people... this is it!!! We are goin to spark up this Journey in a few fleeting moments out of this addiction. Of what I have seen that last six months, the people who have failed and fallen unto the wayside, even the first weeks DID NOT have the right motivation, self discipline, unwilling to do what must be done, and stubborn to take a step of faith. Instead of getting up and starting over again, they have decided to be consumed by the lusts, and desires never to be heard of again.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=90000&page=20
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No, thank you.

A word of advice to all the guys before you step to the big thread... just do it, get mbing out, don't make it a option, as simple as that. Think of it, how will you feel knowing that for 6 months you did not masturbate at all?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Day 1 again :)
 
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Oh... I missed this thread, and started posting on the other. Damn.

Doesn't matter, sign me in.

Day 2/183
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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