"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Another Six Months... Are You With Me

bbestar

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As you know i am about to finish the 6 month journey of no masturbation on June the 3rd.

I started way back in November of 2005 thanks to samependo, and it has been a great blessing to me. I have more time for school work, and taking advantage of oppurtunities. I more energy and better performance in sports then ever since I was 16 years old.

I have wasted years and years of my life masturbating to worthless images, and fed my natural sinful nature, the lusts of my flesh and the lusts of my eyes over the years. I became a very pride ful person, I believed that I deserved to do this desiring and acting on my lusts of fake lazy and imaginary so called "young teens" on the internet, on tv, and in real life.

I have learned that this is harmful and it affects you in everyway in your life, and in God's word the bible, just by looking at a women lustfuly, you have already committed adultery. We all are sinners, not because of masturbation or by porn, but our born natural state of man, our very own human nature.

On June 4th of the year of 2006, will be my Day 1 of 183 days I will be fully committed to another six months of no masturbation.

If you don't want to be left out.

Please post and sign up on this thread, then.

On June the 4th, begin your journey on the 6 month no masturbation thread by Samependo

All you need to do to sign up is
put your user name, if you have some comments, go ahead and type them up.

bbestar
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Holland

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Well, I'm into quiting masturbating for 3 weeks or so with these results

1st try: 7 days
2nd try: 9 days
3rd try (current): 2 days and building

But heck, I'll just enter for half a year. With summer coming up I have no choice then to get laid a lot ;)


Holland is in
 

PumpNightmare

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Congrats. However, I felt like I was going to crack when I did 17 days. I don't want to even think about adding a zero at the end of that number. I would probably snap.
 

DJ HOSSIX

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Wsup Bro

What Tips Would You Give.

Im Not That Addicted To Masturbation I Do It Maybe 2 or 3 times a Week.

I Hate It Though.

But At Times It Gets Really Rough And My Desire Kicks In.

How Did You Control Yourself During The Hard Times When You Wanted To Bust A Nut Reall Badly.

Thanks
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Everyone has their own reasons for this. mine doesnt include religion.

I want to go for as long as possible, so 6 months is an eternity to me as far as masturbation is concerned so i shall i sign up for it.

I have no hopes or assumptions as to how I will react in refraining from masturbation, only time will tell.

Im in.
 

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Out of roughly One Hundred people who have missed out on this oppurtunity in a life time..

1. bbestar
2. Holland
3. three12
4. TheoTiger
5. Julian

instead of letting there desires run the rest of their life, have taken advantage of this oppurtunity to live life the way it was meant to be lived.

Will you be left out too?

Today, You have nothing to lose, and everything to gain!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Holland

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So.. when is the official start?
I already have 3 days but I'll forget those to be even with you guys
 

Scrumtulescence

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bbestar said:
Out of roughly One Hundred people who have missed out on this oppurtunity in a life time..

1. bbestar
2. Holland
3. three12
4. TheoTiger
5. Julian

instead of letting there desires run the rest of their life, have taken advantage of this oppurtunity to live life the way it was meant to be lived.
:crackup: :crackup: You take this way too seriously.
 

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Hell no.
 

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Have fun with prostate cancer...

Its all about a happy medium. Don't do it too much, but don't just STOP. Thats just dumb. But hey, your the guy that guides his life by a book written by people 2000 years ago.
 

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TheNewGuy said:
Have fun with prostate cancer...

Its all about a happy medium. Don't do it too much, but don't just STOP. Thats just dumb. But hey, your the guy that guides his life by a book written by people 2000 years ago.
They are not living without any ejaculation. They are just avoiding masturbation.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I have a habit of starting things and not finishing them, but i'm gona start this again.

-sign me up!!!

-I'm also gona start going to the gym on regular basis, and try and push my self to my breaking limit.

-I'm gona get back to eating healthy (6x a day)

-I used to be a regular invester also....i'm gona get back into doing that too....

It's spring time...LETS GET OFF OUR ASSES GET OUR LIVES BACK
 

dannowillbookem

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Adone said:
They are not living without any ejaculation. They are just avoiding masturbation.
yeah well this crazy ass is a bible thumper and isnt gonna go screwing chicks. oh wait unless he's married. god for his sake i hope he's married.
 

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dannowillbookem said:
yeah well this crazy ass is a bible thumper and isnt gonna go screwing chicks. oh wait unless he's married. god for his sake i hope he's married.
Now that you said that, i'm wondering what he is doing on this site, since he can't go out and sharge.
 

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Holland said:
So.. when is the official start?
I already have 3 days but I'll forget those to be even with you guys
That is good that you have started.. Keep going.. Just post daily on the existing 6 month thread. You'll just have a head start. You would be on Day 3/183

We'll im not married, but this site is teaching me to be a better man in the world, to improve my life.. Not to be needy or an afc.

*updated list*

1. bbestar
2. Holland - Day 3
3. three12
4. TheoTiger
5. Julian
6. spider_007
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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