"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Scars

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Sorry I haven't been on here in such a long time. Last time I was here my number was at 19 now I'm at 21.

First girl I met through a friend. Ended up partying with them and got a hotel room. I think the key point here was when we were taking pictures, her friend suggested we take one of me and the other girl kissing and before she could even say no I macked on that ****. Even though I hardly talked to her the whole night. Got the digits and texted her a lot to keep her interest leveled, ended up fvcking her a couple days later.

Next girl, met through myspace. Wish I could show some logs but they're incredibly long. This one was funny because all though she was incredibly cute our initial conversation (that she started) was totally layed back. I actually tried a different kind of game on her. Usually my tactics is jumping right into some DHV stories and letting her know how extremely fun I am. This time I just tried to be real, I developed trust right on the get go. She lives in the next town over so I invited her over. She came down and nothing sexual happened, a little making out and that was it. A few days later, I asked for another hang out. She picked me up and brought me back to her house, a few captain shots and beers later I was hitting that.

I know I've been extremely poor in my reports, with lack of logs and such but I feel as if this **** is just almost coming off natural now. I don't even see it as a "game" anymore, or "routines" or "tricks", it's gotten to the point where I meet a girl and I just do my thing. Lately, most girls I've been meeting I somehow am banging in the near future.

Here is some other stuff, although not as successful. While in Vegas I did get a cold pick up and got a number. Was with a buddy of mine and noticed this 2set was giving us the eye. Said hi to them as they walked by once. A few minutes later I found us crossing paths with us again, walked by them without saying a word and I thought wow, what a missed opportunity so I actually turned around and walked towards them.

Scars: Hi, I'm scars how are you guys?
Girls: Oh we're fine thanks.
Scars: Do you guys know any better malls? I'm not from around here and this one sucks. (For some reason this was the only opener I could come up with at the time..)
Girl 1: Uhm, not really.
Girl: No, I don't think so.
Scars: Where are you guys from?
Girl 1: We're from Vegas.
Scars: So you guys live here and don't know any malls?
(This was my somewhat neg, I also kinda playfully touched Girl 1's arm with the back of my hand as I said this kind of hitting her playfully)
*Girls laugh* "Sorry!"
They then ask me more about where me and my friend are from. I'm pretty much the one doing all the talking while my friend slips in a word or two.
Eventually it gets down to..
Scars: So what are you guys doing later?
They then say they're going bowling and actually INVITE us.
I say sure and we exchange numbers. They actually end up calling me, but I'm busy getting drunk on the strip by then (which leads into another story I'll tell about after this)
End up blowing these girls off. But I went and saw Girl 1 a few weeks later, got a K-close but that's about it. Girl is extremely innocent AND wealthy, I have a feeling if I hang with her again I'll get the F-close though.

Alrite.. now that same night while out on the strip. While my other friends split up to hit up a strip club me and my friend C start walking the strip. He actually starts hassling me saying that I have decent game but that I need to stop going for "younger girls" namely after that number pick-up I did a few hours earlier. He's 24 and starts getting me some tips. We're on our way to this place where they have $1.00 beers, we're almost there and we notice some cougars kind of following us, he says here's your chance. Keep them here, I'm going to get the beer. So he goes into the Casino and I'm chilling outside. These girls are kinda drunk but so am I, they get about to where I'm at and they're like "Oh my gosh, I need to sit down." Saying it out loud, sitting directly accross from me. Immediately, I say "You ladies can sit by me if you want" with a big huge smile. The rest is kind of a blurr, but we talked a lot. Ran some DHV stories on them, mostly about being a musician and being on tour. My buddy C comes out (who is actually my vocals) comes in and starts running some game too. We eventually found out these chicks were 22 and 24, both High School teachers somewhere in Arizona. Can you say cha-ching? Got to the point where we were talking to them for a long time, and I was holding the younger one. Found out she's a music teacher and we were hitting it off great. We actually got invited back to their room, but that's when my other buddies (the ones at the strip club) suddenly found us. From there it was down hill, so much ****blocking. It was like 5 dudes going after 2 chicks, and you know how that goes.. Eventually they were like we gotta go. Got the numbers, but never really stayed in touch. That night kinda pissed me off. But oh well.

Anyway, that's just a few things I've been up to. How is everyone?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hey man its good to see a DJ that started off at my age doing well. I'm 19 right now, just starting my sophomore year of college and I'm trying to capitalize on the massive amounts of hot girls at my school.

It looks like youre really on top of your game. I've got a question though. Since you are 2 years older you might be able to help me out.

After you tap the girls what do you do the next few days? Do you cut off contact or do you try to hit it a second time?

Lately I've had some trouble with displaying that I don't want to settle down with one girl, and they get attached to my d!ck by the next day.

Keep up the good work, its nice reading about a DJ a little older than me- someone to look up to!
 

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I'm actually 19 as well. 21 = the number of girls I've slept with. Sorry for the misconception. :X

As for your questions, if the ass was good I will usually come back for seconds. I don't completely cut off contact, just rather wait for them to contact me. If they don't then I'll text them a few days later to see how things are going.
 

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Hahah damn man. You're at 14 more than me. Are you in college? I'm curious as to when you learned all this stuff. I'm trying to get my number up into the 20s by the time i turn 20 next august.
 

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Nope, no college unfortunately.. **** would get ridiculous. Haha.

And almost everything I learned was from my friend who's been a natural his whole life. Hanging around him everything just started making sense. I studied his moves, he gave me tips, actually helped me with my style. Plus he introduced me to a lot of "cooler" guy friends and lots of attractive girls that have done nothing but up my value. One thing I've learned from these years is don't hate on the other players.. befriend them and learn from them.

And good luck getting your numbers up there buddy. I'd like to be at like 600 before I die. But we'll see how that goes.. Just remember quality before quantity! Hahahahaha
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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