"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Another reason to not be intimidated by attractive women

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I know this is common sense, but try and think about it more often.

Unless you can tell an attractive woman is wearing little to no make up, remember this.

That HB7 or HB8 is in reality a HB5 or HB6 when she wakes up in the morning. Decent amounts of makeup really make woman go up one to two points.

I will NEVER forget this shot girl my college roomate was having sex with. Will all of her makeup she looked like a HB8-HB9.

I remember seeing the same girl in Burger King a month later without all of her makeup and I was floored how she was only a HB5 or HB6.

If that doesn't take her off a pedestal you also have to realize that attractive women do fart and do take nasty smelly dumps (yes, it is true!!)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yea most girls wear tonnes of make-up but one of my friends wears mascara and that's it, maybe abit of foundation and she looks gorgeous.
 

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Hard to use this if you're odd like me and for some reason are attracted to personality lol
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Famous/Infamous Dove Ad...

stuka1939 said:
I know this is common sense, but try and think about it more often.

Unless you can tell an attractive woman is wearing little to no make up, remember this.

That HB7 or HB8 is in reality a HB5 or HB6 when she wakes up in the morning. Decent amounts of makeup really make woman go up one to two points.

I will NEVER forget this shot girl my college roomate was having sex with. Will all of her makeup she looked like a HB8-HB9.

I remember seeing the same girl in Burger King a month later without all of her makeup and I was floored how she was only a HB5 or HB6.

If that doesn't take her off a pedestal you also have to realize that attractive women do fart and do take nasty smelly dumps (yes, it is true!!)
In which a fairly plain woman is given an expert makeover, to the point of being "good enough" to feature on a billboard.
 

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Attractive packaging huh - it gets you every time!

You need to see beyond the mask and work out what lies beneath. For example: See a HB9, then you need to take two off for all the slap, and you have a HB7 underneath.

Aim for the top, and you will be less likely to be disappointed once you see her without the mask.

Of course, there is that rare beast - the natural beauty who only wears little or no make-up. Well worth the chase, because what you see is what you get!
 

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stuka1939 said:
I know this is common sense, but try and think about it more often.

Unless you can tell an attractive woman is wearing little to no make up, remember this.

That HB7 or HB8 is in reality a HB5 or HB6 when she wakes up in the morning. Decent amounts of makeup really make woman go up one to two points.

I will NEVER forget this shot girl my college roomate was having sex with. Will all of her makeup she looked like a HB8-HB9.

I remember seeing the same girl in Burger King a month later without all of her makeup and I was floored how she was only a HB5 or HB6.

If that doesn't take her off a pedestal you also have to realize that attractive women do fart and do take nasty smelly dumps (yes, it is true!!)

the fact that women have to wear makeup to be attractive and men don't show's you who's insecure
 

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stuka1939 said:
I know this is common sense, but try and think about it more often.

Unless you can tell an attractive woman is wearing little to no make up, remember this.

That HB7 or HB8 is in reality a HB5 or HB6 when she wakes up in the morning. Decent amounts of makeup really make woman go up one to two points.

I will NEVER forget this shot girl my college roomate was having sex with. Will all of her makeup she looked like a HB8-HB9.

I remember seeing the same girl in Burger King a month later without all of her makeup and I was floored how she was only a HB5 or HB6.

If that doesn't take her off a pedestal you also have to realize that attractive women do fart and do take nasty smelly dumps (yes, it is true!!)

the fact that women have to wear makeup to be attractive and men don't show's you who's insecure
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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stuka1939 said:
I know this is common sense, but try and think about it more often.

Unless you can tell an attractive woman is wearing little to no make up, remember this.

That HB7 or HB8 is in reality a HB5 or HB6 when she wakes up in the morning. Decent amounts of makeup really make woman go up one to two points.

I will NEVER forget this shot girl my college roomate was having sex with. Will all of her makeup she looked like a HB8-HB9.

I remember seeing the same girl in Burger King a month later without all of her makeup and I was floored how she was only a HB5 or HB6.

If that doesn't take her off a pedestal you also have to realize that attractive women do fart and do take nasty smelly dumps (yes, it is true!!)

the fact that women have to wear makeup to be attractive and men don't show's you who's insecure
 

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Man thats true. I saw this girl from high school who was held as a top dime piece. I saw her at her work in the morning and man ....she looked like a HB7. Morning shifts cant hide them all. lol
 
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