"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Another post about POF..
- Thread starter OrokuSaki
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
HumbleNinja
Banned
Depends on how good you look and dumb sht you may send that chicks respond to.OrokuSaki said:
Talking to two 24 yos. Another 37yo. Met one of the 24yos. going out with her again on Friday. The other one wants to meet. Seen multiple pics to my cell of both..as well as the other 37 yo who wanted to meet up for drinks. (Couldn't as was working)
Talked to and got the number of a midget chick too. lol. She's pretty cool. I've talked to chicks who were parapalegic on there different races..all kinds for the hell of it. Either stop talking to them as I get bored or I get their numbers, get bored and delete them.
Other dudes have met chicks off there.
Or is this "question" simply a thinly veiled "Attack" on those who use online dating as a side thing for the hell of it?
Yes most are low quality. But the few I keep talking to seem ok. Not expecting to find girlfriend or wife material online. No one should.
HyperAnalyze
Don Juan
I have met up with some girls, not too bad, seemed normal but they wanted a relationship. Something I wasn't interested in at the time.
Crissco
Master Don Juan
HyperAnalyze
Don Juan
Ahh..... yes.... haha
I wish I lived there.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Crissco
Master Don Juan
That does help lol, but its also what you say too, how you look, your profile, everything goes into it. Ive had tons of complements on my profile because its funny and light hearted. My picture are typical douchebag shirtless pictures(Which im not but portray it) and i look good, so for me it all comes together smoothly.HyperAnalyze said:
I can use hey, and get a response from an average, i use it on a hot chick not gonna happen, then i need to step it up, false disqualify then ask a question...it basically requires a response. or i just go direct, it depends on the girl and what im feeling.
You described online dating perfectly"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.