"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Brings joy to my heart....

http://www.pof.com/success_view.aspx?id=79028

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Thank you POF for helping us find each other! I decided the night I messaged Troy that it was the last try I was giving for a while after a bit of a heart break. I sent him an email and he got back with me the next day. We went to our local track to walk and jog just to get to know each other. A few times later, we decided on an actual date July 8, 2011, got engaged January 26, 2012, and just recently got married on May 25, 2013. Happy doesn't even begin to describe our life!
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Thank you POF for helping to save me from spinsterhood! I decided the night I messaged Troy that I was sick of being pumped and dumped by guys out of my league. I sent him an email because no normal dude was emailing me and the loser got back to me faster than anyone else ever had. I pretended to be involved in exercise so he'd think I was going to lose the weight. He was such a beta that he went out with me over and over and didn't even push for sex. I pressed for engagement after only a few months of dating and a wedding, because I figured I'd better get a ring on my finger before he wised up. Relief doesn't even begin to express my feelings!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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i don't see how for the life of me see how guys go on these multiple get to know you friendly type outings with hicks they want to bang....just doesn't make sense...they may be beta acting, but if anything, they should be commended on their patience...
 
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Arrrrrrrrr, how sweet. *Happy tears*
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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adam225 said:
Arrrrrrrrr, how sweet. *Happy tears*
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my thoughts exactly :crackup:
 
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I'm really happy for this guy, I'ma let this girl finish, but Beyonce had the best video of all time!
 
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Engaged after 6 months? Married 4 months later? yeah...um no. Who wants to bet they're "separated" by or before December 2013 and she will have up another profile mostly telling of how "mean she was treated by her husband and all guys are scum".:crackup:
 
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Well, on the bright side when she cheats on him, he can find someone hotter than her relatively easily...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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We should have a monthly thread like this to laugh at. Hmmmmm....
 
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doesnt look like he can even get his arms around her!!! that gentlemen is settling, right there
 
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holy crap...i just clicked on the link..didn't realize that she literally was a cow....that poor guy..he must be very submissive...i'll bet she will be wearing the pants in this one and dominating him before cheating on him....i see the non threatening nice looking guys like him all the time with these heffers that boss them around and treat them like dirt...wow that is a HB 1 out of 10 at best...
 
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