"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Brings joy to my heart....

http://www.pof.com/success_view.aspx?id=79028

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Thank you POF for helping us find each other! I decided the night I messaged Troy that it was the last try I was giving for a while after a bit of a heart break. I sent him an email and he got back with me the next day. We went to our local track to walk and jog just to get to know each other. A few times later, we decided on an actual date July 8, 2011, got engaged January 26, 2012, and just recently got married on May 25, 2013. Happy doesn't even begin to describe our life!
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Thank you POF for helping to save me from spinsterhood! I decided the night I messaged Troy that I was sick of being pumped and dumped by guys out of my league. I sent him an email because no normal dude was emailing me and the loser got back to me faster than anyone else ever had. I pretended to be involved in exercise so he'd think I was going to lose the weight. He was such a beta that he went out with me over and over and didn't even push for sex. I pressed for engagement after only a few months of dating and a wedding, because I figured I'd better get a ring on my finger before he wised up. Relief doesn't even begin to express my feelings!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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i don't see how for the life of me see how guys go on these multiple get to know you friendly type outings with hicks they want to bang....just doesn't make sense...they may be beta acting, but if anything, they should be commended on their patience...
 
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Arrrrrrrrr, how sweet. *Happy tears*
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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adam225 said:
Arrrrrrrrr, how sweet. *Happy tears*
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my thoughts exactly :crackup:
 
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I'm really happy for this guy, I'ma let this girl finish, but Beyonce had the best video of all time!
 
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Engaged after 6 months? Married 4 months later? yeah...um no. Who wants to bet they're "separated" by or before December 2013 and she will have up another profile mostly telling of how "mean she was treated by her husband and all guys are scum".:crackup:
 
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Well, on the bright side when she cheats on him, he can find someone hotter than her relatively easily...
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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We should have a monthly thread like this to laugh at. Hmmmmm....
 
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doesnt look like he can even get his arms around her!!! that gentlemen is settling, right there
 
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holy crap...i just clicked on the link..didn't realize that she literally was a cow....that poor guy..he must be very submissive...i'll bet she will be wearing the pants in this one and dominating him before cheating on him....i see the non threatening nice looking guys like him all the time with these heffers that boss them around and treat them like dirt...wow that is a HB 1 out of 10 at best...
 
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