Mr. Mystery II
Senior Don Juan
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Your never gonna get much experience if you are too worried about being inexperienced. Just let go man. Women are women regardless of where in the world they are, the more restricted they are in society, the more they lust for men, just very descretly.
When I say take time away from the forum, I mean stay away altogether. Don't come for the booster shot of reading any of your favorite posts. You need to break free of your dependence on this forum. Just say **** it! I'm gonna get as much experience as possible and I'm gonna have a blast doing it, **** what anyone else thinks, who are they. They might joke about me today, but they will envy me tomarrow!
As for that one girl. I can't give you any how to tips to get the one you really want. Confidence is what you need. ****ty answer right? Seriously, you gotta work your way up to the girls you really want. To get confident you gotta get experience. Later on, you learn to be more aggressive and forward with women. Trying to be aggressive and forward when your still insecure about yourself will not get you far. The trick to being aggressive and forward is not caring about the outcome, you say it because thats how you feel and you want to express it, not because you are trying to win her over. You say it, and you act on it because you are confident and go after what you want, regardless of obstacles. That is confidence.
If you really like the girl, go for it. Simple as that. Ask her out, joke and flirt with her, kino, establish rapport, all that big word bull**** that gets thrown around here by guys that try to sound smart. Just be yourself and have fun with her.
It really sounds to me like you put some women on pedestals. The trick to get around that problem is not to knock them off their pedestal, but to climb up onto your own pedestal that is just as high or higher than hers.
I can't say this enough, once you learn the basics from the forum, stay away and don't come back, especially when you feel like you need it most. You will never get far is you depend on your resources here.
Look if she likes you and you like her, than just go for it. Pain is weakness leaving the body! You will grow from it no matter what the outcome! You could be the man of her dreams but there is only one way to find out. Go for it!
Mr. Mystery
When I say take time away from the forum, I mean stay away altogether. Don't come for the booster shot of reading any of your favorite posts. You need to break free of your dependence on this forum. Just say **** it! I'm gonna get as much experience as possible and I'm gonna have a blast doing it, **** what anyone else thinks, who are they. They might joke about me today, but they will envy me tomarrow!
As for that one girl. I can't give you any how to tips to get the one you really want. Confidence is what you need. ****ty answer right? Seriously, you gotta work your way up to the girls you really want. To get confident you gotta get experience. Later on, you learn to be more aggressive and forward with women. Trying to be aggressive and forward when your still insecure about yourself will not get you far. The trick to being aggressive and forward is not caring about the outcome, you say it because thats how you feel and you want to express it, not because you are trying to win her over. You say it, and you act on it because you are confident and go after what you want, regardless of obstacles. That is confidence.
If you really like the girl, go for it. Simple as that. Ask her out, joke and flirt with her, kino, establish rapport, all that big word bull**** that gets thrown around here by guys that try to sound smart. Just be yourself and have fun with her.
It really sounds to me like you put some women on pedestals. The trick to get around that problem is not to knock them off their pedestal, but to climb up onto your own pedestal that is just as high or higher than hers.
I can't say this enough, once you learn the basics from the forum, stay away and don't come back, especially when you feel like you need it most. You will never get far is you depend on your resources here.
Look if she likes you and you like her, than just go for it. Pain is weakness leaving the body! You will grow from it no matter what the outcome! You could be the man of her dreams but there is only one way to find out. Go for it!
Mr. Mystery