"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Re: Re: Update on the Online Chicks

Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
It may seem cliché and stereotypical but the health care women seem to be for giving and open while lawyers tend to be cold and argumentative. Have you noticed this?
It seems simple not not very much. What kind of features and qualities should a lawwer have? Anything but feminine ones.
So in general, statistically speaking, females lawyers are not very feminine...not a big turn on.

Same reasoning: what kind of qualities does health care pormote?
In any case something more feminine than dry laws...
But. Health care women, lets say nurses are usually in a very interesting environment at work: lots of women, and just a few guys who usually doctors and whom each decent nurse "wants to fvck". And basically some of them do. So it also promotes female competitiveness and power choices with all disadvantages which come along with it.

Obviously lawyers usualy cannot date up at all..
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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