"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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another noob question

DrD77

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so i was making out with my girlfriend the other day and I got her top off and sucked her tits. i also rubbed her vagina but didnt actually finger her because she wouldn't let me take her pants off just yet. anyway, i felt like i was totally giving it away that i was a virgin and that this is the farthurest i've ever got with a woman. she said she was enjoying it, but she wasn't making any sounds or anything when i was rubbed her **** and sucking her tits. i hope this doesn't ruin her attraction for me. maybe she was just nervous cause she is really shy and so am i. i lost my boner too and i think it was just the nerves of doing this with a girl for the first time and the fact that we had been making out for 30 minutes already before. any comments?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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HarlequinMan

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WOW man u need to look up overcoming last minute resistance, wtf is the point of all that seduction if ur ****ing clueless about how to seal the deal?
 

mothballs

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A lot of women only make sounds for show... porn is a terrible example of what you should expect. A true indication of pleasure could be as subtle as a quiet wimper... and that may only happen at the climax. First time sex will probably be the quietest you ever have. There's nothing wrong with loud women, but just know that the volume is no indication of satisfaction...
 
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