"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Another Myspace problem? (girls welcome)

Slick101

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My girl and I are serious... Its been over a year of dating.... She has a myspace I dont... However I DID have her myspace Password....

One day I logged on and I saw her talking to sum dudes and dont get me wrong... I dont care ... she talks to guys all the time on myspace.... But these 2 guys really caught my attention for sum other personal reason....

I didnt like that and I told her about it.... She told me Im insecure... and Changed her password... This was about 2 months ago... She says She has nothing to hide but she is hiding her myspace from me... I told her WTF are u doing there Huh.... Shes like nothing and changes the topic....

I wanted to get her passowrd but I cant,....

Now how should I go about this u PUA's..... ? Should III make a myspace or what actions do u guys think I should take (or girls)

Thankssss
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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jacob

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Look, she's testing you, to see how insecure you are. Stop going and checking up on her myspace, because it's painful sh!t.

If you want to keep her then just forget about it, don't bring up the issue anymore.

It's already noted with her, and now she's expecting you to be like all the other guys and get all crazy over it, then she has a reason to dump you, because it's a huge turn off for girls.

Even if she's flirting, most likely it won't go anywhere and she'll find you way more desirable because you didn't fall and let your jealousy get the best of you.

If I could help anyone with my experience then I offer it to you. Stop checking her myspace forget about it and be strong and attractive to her.

It's hard, for sure knowing this, but here's your chance to score extra points with her and level up as Don Juan.
 

Asteconn

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Reeks of insecurity; and that is bad. Get too clingy, and you'll chase her off.

You obviously do give a sh!t about who she speaks to, otherwise you'd not be so arsy about seeing who she's talking to.

Best advice: Ignore it. Not ignoring it will shaft you regardless of what you do about it.

Also, facebook is much better than myspace anyway.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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1st. You made the mistake of telling her you knew!

2nd. Now, she is hiding it from you.

3rd. Your starting to get paranoid and maybe, you should.
 

daygameguy

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Slick101 said:
My girl and I are serious... Its been over a year of dating.... She has a myspace I dont... However I DID have her myspace Password....

One day I logged on and I saw her talking to sum dudes and dont get me wrong... I dont care ... she talks to guys all the time on myspace.... But these 2 guys really caught my attention for sum other personal reason....

I didnt like that and I told her about it.... She told me Im insecure... and Changed her password... This was about 2 months ago... She says She has nothing to hide but she is hiding her myspace from me... I told her WTF are u doing there Huh.... Shes like nothing and changes the topic....

I wanted to get her passowrd but I cant,....

Now how should I go about this u PUA's..... ? Should III make a myspace or what actions do u guys think I should take (or girls)

Thankssss
Look dude. As long as you remain faithful and you can handle the emotions of a breakup, it is entirely HER loss if she is too naive to hook up with a MySpace dude and break her good relationship with you.

You have to stop chasing. If you don't like something she does, TEll her that. She should respect your feelings and has no right to call you insecure. You care for her, how is that being insecure? Insecure would be calling and texting every fckin sec of her absence to check on her.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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