"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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another "movie star"

SoCalMike

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Don't know how many other guys live in LA, but here's a typical scenario:

Met my new neighbor, cute but not exceptional, and we chatted for a bit. Turns out we both moved here from the same city. When I found out she was college educated my feelers perked up b/c that's usually a sign of some degree of maturity.

Then I asked her why she moved here, she said "I'm an Actress". Oh really? Is that what you majored in? "No but I took a lot of classes so I know it". Are you in any productions now? "No, but I'm going to pay (get ripped) $1700 to join a union then I'll get work". For now she's living off of Mommy and Daddy.

Don't get me wrong, if she had a career, and was acting on the side, I'd totally respect that. But here this girl is, late 20's, HB6 with a semi-fat ass, and she wasting her time competing with 10,000 other 20YO HB9's who all want to become the next big starlet.

It never ceases to amaze me how many women are living in a dream world!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DJDamage

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Originally posted by SoCalMike
It never ceases to amaze me how many women are living in a dream world!
Alot of women especially the new generation think they are special and smarter then everybody else and therefore they will make it in some type of glamerous enterprise such as acting, fashion or singing. They are delusionals.

I guess if your role models are no talent hacks like britney spears and paris hilton then everyone in a sense can make it or not make it.

Someone should tell all those wannabe's the truth! that the only camera work they will probably get is taking their cloths off and being jackhammered from behind!

"You are not special. You are not a beautiful and unique snowflake. You are the same decaying organic matter as everything else. You are not your job. You are not the money in your bank account. You are not the car you drive. You are not how much money you have in your wallet. You are not your fvcking khakis. You are the all-singing, all-dancing crap of the world" - Tyler Durdan "Fight Club".
 

SoCalMike

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Re: Re: another "movie star"

Originally posted by DJDamage
Alot of women especially the new generation think they are special and smarter then everybody else and therefore they will make it in some type of glamerous enterprise such as acting, fashion or singing. They are delusionals.

I guess if your role models are no talent hacks like britney spears and paris hilton then everyone in a sense can make it or not make it.

Someone should tell all those wannabe's the truth! that the only camera work they will probably get is taking their cloths off and being jackhammered from behind!

"You are not special. You are not a beautiful and unique snowflake. You are the same decaying organic matter as everything else. You are not your job. You are not the money in your bank account. You are not the car you drive. You are not how much money you have in your wallet. You are not your fvcking khakis. You are the all-singing, all-dancing crap of the world" - Tyler Durdan "Fight Club".
:crackup: Exactly!

And they never say "I'm trying to become an actress, singer, etc." It's always "I'm an actress" or "I'm a musician" and "I'm just working as a cashier to pay the bills for the time being".
 

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It always amazes me how these women often own their house, condo, etc. I meet one of these girls, they start talking, and it comes up, "oh yeah, I should probably get a job."

wtf?

You are 29, and you don't have a job, but you own a $300k condo?

The property either came from daddy, or the last guy. Now they are just looking for a "nice guy" to latch onto and keep buying them sh-t so they never have to actually get that job.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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And you know what? They'll probably get the sad bastard!
 
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