"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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another "movie star"

SoCalMike

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Don't know how many other guys live in LA, but here's a typical scenario:

Met my new neighbor, cute but not exceptional, and we chatted for a bit. Turns out we both moved here from the same city. When I found out she was college educated my feelers perked up b/c that's usually a sign of some degree of maturity.

Then I asked her why she moved here, she said "I'm an Actress". Oh really? Is that what you majored in? "No but I took a lot of classes so I know it". Are you in any productions now? "No, but I'm going to pay (get ripped) $1700 to join a union then I'll get work". For now she's living off of Mommy and Daddy.

Don't get me wrong, if she had a career, and was acting on the side, I'd totally respect that. But here this girl is, late 20's, HB6 with a semi-fat ass, and she wasting her time competing with 10,000 other 20YO HB9's who all want to become the next big starlet.

It never ceases to amaze me how many women are living in a dream world!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DJDamage

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Originally posted by SoCalMike
It never ceases to amaze me how many women are living in a dream world!
Alot of women especially the new generation think they are special and smarter then everybody else and therefore they will make it in some type of glamerous enterprise such as acting, fashion or singing. They are delusionals.

I guess if your role models are no talent hacks like britney spears and paris hilton then everyone in a sense can make it or not make it.

Someone should tell all those wannabe's the truth! that the only camera work they will probably get is taking their cloths off and being jackhammered from behind!

"You are not special. You are not a beautiful and unique snowflake. You are the same decaying organic matter as everything else. You are not your job. You are not the money in your bank account. You are not the car you drive. You are not how much money you have in your wallet. You are not your fvcking khakis. You are the all-singing, all-dancing crap of the world" - Tyler Durdan "Fight Club".
 

SoCalMike

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Re: Re: another "movie star"

Originally posted by DJDamage
Alot of women especially the new generation think they are special and smarter then everybody else and therefore they will make it in some type of glamerous enterprise such as acting, fashion or singing. They are delusionals.

I guess if your role models are no talent hacks like britney spears and paris hilton then everyone in a sense can make it or not make it.

Someone should tell all those wannabe's the truth! that the only camera work they will probably get is taking their cloths off and being jackhammered from behind!

"You are not special. You are not a beautiful and unique snowflake. You are the same decaying organic matter as everything else. You are not your job. You are not the money in your bank account. You are not the car you drive. You are not how much money you have in your wallet. You are not your fvcking khakis. You are the all-singing, all-dancing crap of the world" - Tyler Durdan "Fight Club".
:crackup: Exactly!

And they never say "I'm trying to become an actress, singer, etc." It's always "I'm an actress" or "I'm a musician" and "I'm just working as a cashier to pay the bills for the time being".
 

DoubleA

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:crackup:
 

iveyleeger

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It always amazes me how these women often own their house, condo, etc. I meet one of these girls, they start talking, and it comes up, "oh yeah, I should probably get a job."

wtf?

You are 29, and you don't have a job, but you own a $300k condo?

The property either came from daddy, or the last guy. Now they are just looking for a "nice guy" to latch onto and keep buying them sh-t so they never have to actually get that job.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Ars Amoris

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And you know what? They'll probably get the sad bastard!
 
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