Another Man's....Women~!

[john siegal]

I've come to the conclusion that the Hottest Babes are always with or have...a boyfriend or fiance, or worse...a Husband.

And it also seems that some dude is always scoping out my chick(s).

But that's it...i've had it. All of the good ones are takin...and i'm getting my share.

So, i've decided that every women is fair game (except for the married ones).

If she's got a BF, that don't mean squat...if she's engaged...Who cares!

I'm making my play for it...and i'm taking what i can get.

Why not...Everyone else is?

Who's with me on this?

 

[amoka]

there are plenty of women out there. quit parasiting on other man's woman. Be a man

 

[john siegal]

lol...."Parasite?.....be a man?" (you're funny!)

there are plenty of women out there. quit parasiting on other man's woman. Be a man

 

[Da Realist]

Better be ready to face a shotgun to the face somewhere along the line. Stuff like this always catches up with you somehow.

 

[MrLuvr]

I've come to the conclusion that the Hottest Babes are always with or have...a boyfriend or fiance, or worse...a Husband.

And it also seems that some dude is always scoping out my chick(s).

But that's it...i've had it. All of the good ones are takin...and i'm getting my share.

So, i've decided that every women is fair game (except for the married ones).

If she's got a BF, that don't mean squat...if she's engaged...Who cares!

I'm making my play for it...and i'm taking what i can get.

Why not...Everyone else is?

Who's with me on this?

I agree with you. If I start talking to a girl, now I never ask her if she has a boyfriend. Who cares? If she does, and she wants to stay with him, then it is up to her to tell me or to drop the contact.

The way that things are these days, every chick has some sort of hookup that she refers to as a boyfriend. I am not going to sit there and try to figure what relationship each girl is having with her man of the moment. That is her problem.

If her present relationship is of any value to her, she won't act on your advances. It shouldn't hold you back. The whole "she probably has a boyfriend already" is just another excuse that men create in their minds so they don't have to pursue or approach.

 

[DJDamage]

Who's with me on this?

Count me in.

Not all women who cheat will actually inform you that they are with somebody already so it doesn't make a difference in the end and women are notorious branch swingers who tend to trade up. Women who are looking to trade up do not often leave their man until they are sure they got a good hold onto another (the logic of most women now a days is that its better to cheat and take the risk then taking the risk of walking away and trying your luck while being single).

 

[SXS]

Sometimes it is impossible to avoid it at all.

Of course you're taking what you can get, chumps always do.

And taking what he can't get is impossible.

 

[john siegal]

(another comedian....)

"Wow...i'm really scared Now Opee...Maybe we better call Andy!!!"

I know how to handle myself...i'm not too concerned about some dumb ass guy who wants to pull a gun.

In my state, you pull a gun, you go to Jail!

Maybe in Memphis...the redneck, tobacco chewing cops overlook that crap...but in the Big Cities...you do big "LONG TIME" for pulling a gun in a crime.

lol...

...i wish some chump would pull a gun on me...i would Fuke him up so bad...he would never walk the same again....

i need to get a workout in!

Better be ready to face a shotgun to the face somewhere along the line. Stuff like this always catches up with you somehow.

 

[acw]

Dominant males have always had their share of the tribes women...and Dominant males spawn most of the population of the tribe. Dominant males typically take females from other men...

...don't believe me?....haha...this is a self evident law (unless you belong to some freaky cult where BS egalitarian philosophy is norm).

Look at all the cultures around the world...the dominant males ALWAYS have the best looking women.

Now..how do they get them?

Do you think these women (who are prized) are ever alone?

LOL...obviously from some of the posters on this thread, you see that many men do....haha.

You can choose to live in reality...or your own fantasy (as some of the posters of this have already alluded too).

 

[countermart]

"Do you think these women (who are prized) are ever alone?"

Yep, plenty.

Some HB are attached, but many of the very top HBs, especially professional girls with degrees doctors, lawyers, dentists, are often not hooked up. Guys are often too nervous to ask them out. But you will probably find that most of these girls want LTRs so there are pros and cons.

I find the girls that are mostly hooked up are in the middle to just below top range and give out a kind of attainable, approachable vibe..they’re mostly taken.

Countermart

 

[Trader]

I agree completely

If she's not married, she's fair game, even if she has a bf or she is engaged

Most of the super-cuties have bfs - the reason is because they are usually more feminine, and the more feminine a girl is, the more she cannot tolerate being alone

Besides, the super-cuties are always on the lookout for guys, ESPECIALLY if they have a bf. They will always be comparing guys back and forth.

However, I will NOT steal a girl from another guy under one situation: if the guy is my good friend. Real men always have LOYALTY to their buddies.

 

[ChumpNoMore]

If she's not married, she's fair game, even if she has a bf or she is engaged

Devils advocate:

Considering that not all the boyfriends and fiances out there are DJ types and practice the "Laissez faire" attitude towards their relationships with women...

It would be wise to exercise extreme caution and discretion when considering being the "other man", lest such a womans jealous or disgruntled lover unduly blame you, and/or buy her lies and rationalizations... And you bear that brunt of the fallout:

http://www.stltoday.com/stltoday/ne...504F7960A5F03680862575BA0063126F?OpenDocument

http://www.armleytoday.co.uk/4268/Bramley-Jealous-lover-sent-to.5286908.jp

Not to mention if she is stepping out on him, it's a likely well established and entrenched pattern for her and thus should disqualify her as a "quality" woman fit for your attention...

 

[Purple_Haze]

There is a girl I know who is engaged, but has been having second thoughts about it lately. We have a pretty strong attraction to each other, and she invited me to a friend's b-day party with her last weekend. There was heavy kino and flirting. She was going to come home with me but her friend had pulled her aside and told her not to because she is engaged. She had called me after she got home that night and told me this.

We had lunch the other day and she told me she feels very comfortable around me and is attracted to me. She even paid for the lunch. However, the next day I saw her out at lunch with another guy. She asked me if I was jealous and I told her no, because after all we aren't even dating. I'm just wondering if she is simply gaming and wants the attention of some men because she is questioning her engagement, or if there is actually something there. Should I just start to blow her off a bit now and make her realize she isn't going to just keep playing this flirting game with me? My attitude with it is basically if something happens between us cool, because she is hot, but I'm not going to overpursue her because that won't get me anywhere. I'm assuming she would just keep stringing me along if I do that.

Any takes on how I should play this?

 

[Trader]

There is a girl I know who is engaged, but has been having second thoughts about it lately. We have a pretty strong attraction to each other, and she invited me to a friend's b-day party with her last weekend. There was heavy kino and flirting. She was going to come home with me but her friend had pulled her aside and told her not to because she is engaged. She had called me after she got home that night and told me this.

We had lunch the other day and she told me she feels very comfortable around me and is attracted to me. She even paid for the lunch. However, the next day I saw her out at lunch with another guy. She asked me if I was jealous and I told her no, because after all we aren't even dating. I'm just wondering if she is simply gaming and wants the attention of some men because she is questioning her engagement, or if there is actually something there. Should I just start to blow her off a bit now and make her realize she isn't going to just keep playing this flirting game with me? My attitude with it is basically if something happens between us cool, because she is hot, but I'm not going to overpursue her because that won't get me anywhere. I'm assuming she would just keep stringing me along if I do that.

Any takes on how I should play this?

Remember - you are the Prize to be won. She has to win you over. If she wants to play this flirting game with you - that's fine. She is not going to take you seriously (for now) - then you don't take her seriously. But that does NOT mean that you blow her off. No, blowing her off makes you look insecure and jealous and implicity you are telling her she is the Prize to be won.

You not taking her seriously means you don't overcommit to her, you don't change your schedule at the last second to hang out with her, you don't do anything *special* for her. Your goal is just to have FUN with her and use these light-hearted hangouts as a way to *test* her to see if she really has what it takes to be your girl. In the meantime, while you hang out with her, you will demonstrate high value naturally with your charisma and sooner or later she is really going to be attracted to you.

 

[acw]

1. Dominant males are usually physically stronger and more aggressive than AFC. They are always territorial and protective. Chances are this dude who got blow away was already tipped off to the fact that the X was unstable.

2. **** happens in the Big city. I could give you numerous examples of people getting shot for no reason...let alone being the next dude who's bangin your X.

3. Quality women? Women usually stray from their mates when they are unhappy. If they are happy, they don't look around. If someone catches their attention, its because they weren't happy in the first place.

Chances are the dude who lost his girl, lost her way before she asked him to move out.

Devils advocate:

Considering that not all the boyfriends and fiances out there are DJ types and practice the "Laissez faire" attitude towards their relationships with women...

It would be wise to exercise extreme caution and discretion when considering being the "other man", lest such a womans jealous or disgruntled lover unduly blame you, and/or buy her lies and rationalizations... And you bear that brunt of the fallout:

http://www.stltoday.com/stltoday/ne...504F7960A5F03680862575BA0063126F?OpenDocument

http://www.armleytoday.co.uk/4268/Bramley-Jealous-lover-sent-to.5286908.jp

Not to mention if she is stepping out on him, it's a likely well established and entrenched pattern for her and thus should disqualify her as a "quality" woman fit for your attention...

 

[john siegal]

Hmmm...

What about these....

http://archives.chicagotribune.com/2008/aug/07/local/chi-beer-fight-fatal-web-aug08

and this

http://news.aol.com/article/woman-kills-son-at-shooting-range/418055

and this one is funny...!....lol
http://www.reuters.com/article/oddlyEnoughNews/idUSL0919437820080709

yep...Planet Earth can be a dangerous place to live...!!!

 

[KontrollerX]

"Who's with me on this?"

I'm with ya John but only to the point of boning these broads for a while and then moving on.

The wise DJ's never give their hearts to a cvm receptacle and that means no genuine relationship with a chick that would cheat on her man to be with you.

Why?

If she will cheat with you she will cheat on you.

That is her mentality and I'm not really knocking certain chicks for that.

If it works for them then it works for them but DJ's once again do well to pay heed to a character of a woman and when she reveals herself to be corrupt like this you are then made aware that she is only good for one thing.

And that one thing is sex.

Foolish DJ's that being the young lads who don't know themselves and don't have a good handle on their emotions need to immediately next these chicks like the plague and only go for girls that they find which are single.

Cvm receptacle quality women are only to be used by expert DJ's who will use them for what they are for and not fall in love with them.

As the saying goes you can't turn a h0 into a house wife but some youngsters will never learn that lesson.

 

[Purple_Haze]

Remember - you are the Prize to be won. She has to win you over. If she wants to play this flirting game with you - that's fine. She is not going to take you seriously (for now) - then you don't take her seriously. But that does NOT mean that you blow her off. No, blowing her off makes you look insecure and jealous and implicity you are telling her she is the Prize to be won.

You not taking her seriously means you don't overcommit to her, you don't change your schedule at the last second to hang out with her, you don't do anything *special* for her. Your goal is just to have FUN with her and use these light-hearted hangouts as a way to *test* her to see if she really has what it takes to be your girl. In the meantime, while you hang out with her, you will demonstrate high value naturally with your charisma and sooner or later she is really going to be attracted to you.

So basically just don't be available eveytime she wants to see me, and when i do see her, just keep having fun around, flirting, etc. just wait for her to express more interest in me again?

 

[john siegal]

You can do that...but the reality is...your new beau....is now somebodies POA.

Most women will never go it alone. They will stay in a relationship...even a bad one...until another man comes along. This is a fact of life.

I challenge you to find a women who is hot and without a boyfriend?

She maybe a good girl...but she ain's shoving off of Demitre *(unless he's beating her senseless..and even then they don't leave), until her new prince charming shows up!

"Who's with me on this?"

I'm with ya John but only to the point of boning these broads for a while and then moving on.

 

[jophil28]

The wise DJ's never give their hearts to a cvm receptacle and that means no genuine relationship with a chick that would cheat on her man to be with you.


As the saying goes you can't turn a h0 into a house wife but some youngsters will never learn that lesson.

Even some of us "oldsters"' had to learn that truth the hard way.

Good post KX...especially about not getting in a relationship with a chick who would cheat on her man to be with you.