"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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VikingKing

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It's really annoying when all you women pass up a good guy because he's not as fun or adventurous as the other guy that can barely hold down a job. My ex girlfriend, when asked what her current boyfriend has that I don't, replies "he's more adventurous". My current girlfriend gets pissed that I'm always at work or working on my house. **** E! And mtv, I believe they have ruined reality.

I'm just trying get ahead so that i can provide for a family some day, but heaven forbid i miss an event. Sometimes I wish I was gay, you females are hard to deal with and I question if it's even worth it sometimes.

I'm 26, college graduate, two jobs, a house, three healthy vehicles, excellent credit, but apparently that isn't enough. **** you all (females), collectively.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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VladPatton

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Yup, I've noticed this, too. So be it. I'm not going to whine about it because it is what it is. Wherever there's drama, financial woes, see-saw button pushing, and overall soap opera-ness, lo and behold a woman will be there with open arms to get in on that action. Or should I say action/adventure.

Like Danger said, their views will change when the wall is 2" from their face.
 

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I feel ya on this issue. In 2004 my first wife left me. One of her many reasons was her complaints about how much time I studied under my own accord to try and better my value in the career/job market.

I think that women in their 30s are the worst, moreso than 20s and 40s.

In their 20s they are flakey but at least their heads aren't so swollen.

In their 30s they are flakey along with a big inflated head thinking they are Queen of the world and can do anything to anybody and get away with anything.

In their 40s they are flakey but not as much and the head starts to deflate when they realize their market value with men and thus the world isn't what it once was.

I am with a 41 year old woman now whom I have known for 22 years. I have to keep her on her toes. Her ex from her early 30s and I are friends and from what he has told me she was far worse then than now. One thing I have came to terms with with her more than any other is that she may be here today, and gone tomorrow. I think that mindset will help and get you far no matter the age. Treat them all as temporary with no LTR expetations, spin as many as possible, and see where the pieces fall.
 

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Haha, one foot out the door. It's the only way to be.
 
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