Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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America's laws are a little fu*ked up. In Australia it’s a little different. So here it would be an over reaction to say what you said if a girl made a joke about rape.

However I do agree that over there in America with all the "crazy rape laws" one could react that way because it is a touchy subject. It’s just the difference in culture.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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So pimp its scary

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That is thanks to the feminists... it is now considered rape if half-way through the woman resists, and you continue.

It's also possible for a husband to be found guilty of raping his wife.
 

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ya, I'm saying that the woman doesn't even technically have to say 'stop'. Only resist.

The shytty part of it all is that in a 'your word against hers', SHE has the advantage.

Therefore, a woman even joking about doing something like that is DANGEROUS to even a good hearted man, that might say the wrong thing the next week to 'warrant' the woman's spite.
 

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Well im glad Australia is diffrent. Id hate to have to watch what is say incase i get accused of rape out of spite.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by So pimp its scary
If a girl said that to me, I would stand up, zip up, and walk away, never to speak to that girl again.

I shyt you not... if the girl followed me, I'd tell her to fvck right off too.
I am with you man. I don't care what the setting is. If a girl said that, she would be standing alone shortly after.

:woo: I'd Be RunnIng.
 
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