"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Another hot girl

BxPrince24

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Yesterday was my cuz in law's wedding. And during the wedding I saw this hot a$$ girl that's helping out in the wedding. So instantly, I make eye contact and smile. Our eyes connect a few more times before we left for the reception.

Now the reception was banging! The party was the best damn one I've been to in my life. One question though, I got drunk and the music was loud, now my ears are still ringing. How long till that goes away?

Back on topic, so at the reception, I ask her what's her name. I noticed she was drinking and playing around so I said this is why little kids shouldn't drink, she started laughing. I found out more about her. Then I left her and went on the dancefloor.

So I'm dancing, having a blast, then I see her and her friends walking past me. So I grab her by the arm to come dance with me then she starts grinding me HARD. I almost cought a full hard on with her. sh*t was great.

So I get a Smirnoff and take a seat. I'm drinking it and talking to this other girl. Then the hot chick comes by and takes a drink of my Smirnoff. I'm like "wow". So she takes a drink then tries to walk away laughing, so I put my arm around her waist and I asked her "did I say you can drink from a kings drink?" She starts laughing and her friend came and took her somewhere. Anyways, I get her number. I feel like calling her today to get her to chill with me after church but I know the rules and it would be too soon. Let me know what you think.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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BxPrince24

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Well, she called me. We spoke a little then I found out that she has a man. I told her that I wanted to take her out n she said "I don't know" so I said it's an easy question, yes or no. She said "I don't know because of my boyfriend..." So I joked around with her then pretty much ended the convo. I'm just so pissed that happened though.
 

gimmeyofonenumba

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wow that sux. I guess she was just drunk. Dont develop oneitis though. I;ve seen that happen at clubs alot, hot chicks(even once im dancing with) will spot a cigarette or a beer and ask for a sip or smoke and people give it to them. Most dudes that see it know thats all she wants.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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