"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Another hold my hand post.

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Over Christmast break this female I don't talk to too much just randomly started messaging me like crazy. Every time I would sign in she would instantly message me and so forth you get the idea. When we returned back to school (even a couple days before returning to school) I noticed we don't really talk much, besides in one class we have together where I usually do some C&F stuff and bust her chops.

I'd be willing to try harder if I had my license (a couple weeks), so that I could drive to her place, vice versa, go places without parents driving you, and all the other benefits of having that freedom.

Now this brings me to where I need your take. Has anyone had this type of situation before? Where she acts completely different for no apparent reason, a test perhaps?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Since noone else will, I'm going to tell you that YOU SHOULD READ THE FREAKING BIBLE before posting a newb quetion like this. Save us time and read the bible, I know it takes time but it's worth it.
 

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I read the God damn Bible, I read the beginning stuff thoroughly, but the stuff towards the end I skimmed. But, on that point, how am I taking your time? YOU, yes that's right YOU, have the freewill to respond to my questions. If you think responding helpfully will take 10 minutes of your time carefully think if it's worth it or not to help a guy out.

From the Bible I learned: Don't be a push-over, although humans are advanced we still have "nature" in us, sometimes use reverse pyschology, and give the girl a "hard" time once and a while.. Is there anything else in general I missed?
 

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Originally posted by PeterNorthisawesome
Since noone else will, I'm going to tell you that YOU SHOULD READ THE FREAKING BIBLE before posting a newb quetion like this. Save us time and read the bible, I know it takes time but it's worth it.
You kids really need to stop being so commanding. Telling him to read the bible doesnt help AT ALL!

You talk to her online, but not in preson...im guessing shes waiting for you to initiate something. Go up to her and start a convo. If she still acts sketchy then stop talking to her all the time.
 

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I talk to her in class (about the only time I see her). If I see her in the hallway I give her a playful whack here and there.
And yes kids here need to stop being pricks/commanding I notice some of you bastards think you're pro. You may be better than me, but you're no Pook. (not referring to PeterNorth specifically, it's happened in the past, this was one of the lighter instances)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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