"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Another gal with a bf haha

Jizz

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Dont know why but i love gals with bf's, bloody crazy (i think its funny)

anyway been texting this one, who came round mine and she basically said "u want me, everyone knows you want me!"

so i said "who you kidding? you know if you didnt have a bf you would want me too!"

she said "would i, if i didnt have a bf you would of tried to get it on with me when i was ar ure house, u just want me so much its hurting you to not have me"

i replied "ha i think you wanted me to try and get it on with you when you came to mine, if i wanted you so much you having a bf wouldnt stop me!, anyway stop thinking about me and sleep, sweet dreams about me as usual x"

what do you think? any ideas if shes intrested? did i reply well?

cheers
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Jizz

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Also im bound to see her tomorrow at college, how should i act?

Im gonna be in the computer room for about 2 hours and she will be there too, do i go and sit next to her, or somewhere else? do i iniate convo between us?

cheers for all advice
 

stalluproar

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Since when do women stop wanting other guys when they have a bf? I would say I know you want me more than your bf.

Anyways, I would avoid seeing her in the computer lab. Go to another one. If that can't happen, sit as far away as possible and do not pay one ounze of attention towards her. Don't even seek her out and look at her. If you run into her where you can't avoid that. Keep eye contact and tell her she couldn't resist herself by showing up and then go on to your business.
 

Q-Pid

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Next day you should bust her balls. Next time you see her.

You: Baby...
Her: What?
You: Baby I want you...

:crackup:
 
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