"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I met a girl at a popular local dance last Sat. night, we danced for about ten minutes and we didnt talk much, There was alot of kino while dancing

She goes to a different school, and I have never seen her before, and I added her as a friend on facebook

She just recently changed her status from "in a relationship" to "single" about two days after we became friends.

Also one of her friends that we were dancing with "liked" us becoming facebook friends.

I want to know how to get the number from here and how to escalate, and possibly go out with her.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How do i ask for the number on facebook without sounding creepy
 
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Why don't u have a short convo with her and then tell her to post it up
 
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That sounds cool, something like...
(Girl's name)
I feel like we didnt get to know each other well enough on Sat. Night,
so...
a few random facts about me...
(insert funny random facts about me here)
(see her response then escalate)
 
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Stop worrying so much about FB. You are acting like an AFC. Start a real conversation with her. If you want, send her a couple ****y/funny messages. Get her number after message 2 or 3 at the latest. From there, quit FB stalking her and go out for a real date.

Man up.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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camdry, thanks, that sounds pretty good.

Brian, I have never seen her before, and i will probably never see her again, so i cant really start a conversation with her unless i get her number
 
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Start with small stuff. For example, when she posts an update or picture, either a small comment ("LOL" or liking it) so that you keep yourself in her mind.

After a couple of those, if she's intrigued by the idea of getting to know you better, she'll reciprocate and do the same.

Now comment on her wall (not a private message, the wall is more public and therefore less creepy). You can say something mysterious (but true), like "Wow last night was like Mardi Gras - at least no one got arrested" if you were at a good party, or an invite like "Jennifer, my friends and I are going to do karaoke Saturday, and I'm inviting you!

Yet another thing to look for is if she logs into the chat function on facebook. That's great because it allows you to talk to her again, and since you're already friends it's not like a random person talking to her.

Facebook pickup is totally doable, especially if you left on a high point on the dancing night. Good luck man!
 
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He asked for advice on using JUST Facebook to get to know this girl. A phone or meeting in public is better. But if all you have is FB then this is how I got to know women before I moved to Chicago.

Its a little hard to just 'go and get it' without other contact info lol.
 
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