"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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1. do you NORMALLY make eye contact and smile FIRST at the chick and wait for her to return the eye contact and smile back in order for you to APPROACH?

OR


2. Do you make eyecontact with a chick and make her SMILE at you first in order for you to make an approach?

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Doesn't matter tbh, only way you're going to know if she's good enough for you is if you talk to her, lol.

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Does it matter? When it comes to eye contact I only have a few rules.

1. If I catch eyes with a woman I'll never look away till she's done. This shows dominance. Looking away shows fear.

2. When someone is talking to me I will look them in the eyes only 50 - 60% of the time. You don't need to be a puppy to everyone who listens to you. Only look someone straight in the eyes when the conversation is interesting to YOU.

3. When you're talking, shoot your gaze straight into the listener's eyes. Make it known that you're talking and you're dominating the conversation atm.
 
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I usually just drop my pants, smile and let the one eyed monster make all the contact he wants.

Usually once I drop the pants she is the one smiling and initating contact. Guess it helps to have a 9.5"er
 
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WC2 said:
Does it matter? When it comes to eye contact I only have a few rules.

1. If I catch eyes with a woman I'll never look away till she's done. This shows dominance. Looking away shows fear.

2. When someone is talking to me I will look them in the eyes only 50 - 60% of the time. You don't need to be a puppy to everyone who listens to you. Only look someone straight in the eyes when the conversation is interesting to YOU.

3. When you're talking, shoot your gaze straight into the listener's eyes. Make it known that you're talking and you're dominating the conversation atm.
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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If this isn't natural then women will either sniff it out, or it will seem wierd, or something bad like that.

The point in your game is that it is natural all the way.

Don't struggle with this kind of stuff! It can't be forced.

My rule is that if I feel like smiling I smile, if I'm neutral then I'm neutral... It's so easier for me, since I don't like forcing stuff and all.

And the best if when you both smile at the same time.

It's normally like this:
I'm walking in a happy mood, then I see a chick, and I smile and she smiles at the same time I smile. :up:
 
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I always to smile when she is making oral contact with the one eyed monster.
 
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