You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Dude... I was praising 50 cent. He used to be drug dealer, but he decided to pursue his dreams as a musician and now he is rich and famous. He got big by only doing body weight exercises like pushups and pull ups! Most haters are just jealous.backbreaker said:get it right. he wasn't a coke dealer.. he was a herion and crack dealer.. damn guys
lol, seriously.. 50 isn't a dumb guy if you listen to him. Not defending him or anything, but why are you blaming him? Because he's built, black and is taking advantage of every dumb black/surburban wanna be in the country?
Props to him for doing his thing.. I tip my hat. It's not me.. but that's than again that's ovbious.
I'm pretty sure you are the same guy calling my GF crying on the phone telling her that you are the true virtious one and not to like me.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
:crackup: :yes: :crackup::yes: :crackup::yes: :crackup: :yes: :crackup:backbreaker said:half of the women in american secretly want to be gangbanged
white girl + any black guy other than Borack O Bama seems to = wh0re...speakeasy said:Why is she a wh*re? All she did is have a f*cking dinner with 50 cent, who in interviews is actually a pretty nice guy and is nothing like the thug image he has on his albums. I get sneaking suspicion that if 50 was white, nobody would be hating on her.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
We have a racist here. You just implied that you think there is something wrong with people dating outside of there race when that clearly isn't true.Microphone Fiend said:white girl + any black guy other than Borack O Bama seems to = wh0re...
Such a shame...
I can't believe you said this!!!Last Man Standing said:We need a grand war to cleanse these hors from the planet, once and for all!!!!!
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
She still hot... all the haters wish they were banging her. Why else would they criticize a complete stranger?speakeasy said:Jessica is half Mexican, half white.
She's got some black in her now.speakeasy said:Jessica is half Mexican, half white.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.