You know how it goes, there is a chick you like or just want to bang, and then you hear a story or five about other guys she's supposedly banged. And you go "him? really?"
Now what I usually did at this point is somewhere along "what a wh0re with low standards, do not want"
but really, everyone who hooks up at some point sleeps with someone below their "standards" whatever that means to you - some people sleep with someone just because they needed a place to stay that night, and seeing how girls have a lot more reasons (imo) to sleep with a guy (like getting another guy jealous - we as men don't do this) I think the right mindset is to say "yeah, so what, do *I* want her?"
For me I think the line is am I at a higher chance to catch an STD (are any of the previous dudes druggies or **** anything that moves) and that's about it.
Getting caught up on her past instead of sleeping with her like you wanted to is just your own Ego getting in the way. Imagine if you were being judged on some random fatty that one night you got too drunk - that would suck!
For LTR I believe mindset is more or less the same, but I can't comment, may be some of you who had been with a cool girl and found out she had slept around in the past can comment on how and if it changed anything in the dynamics of the relationship
Now what I usually did at this point is somewhere along "what a wh0re with low standards, do not want"
but really, everyone who hooks up at some point sleeps with someone below their "standards" whatever that means to you - some people sleep with someone just because they needed a place to stay that night, and seeing how girls have a lot more reasons (imo) to sleep with a guy (like getting another guy jealous - we as men don't do this) I think the right mindset is to say "yeah, so what, do *I* want her?"
For me I think the line is am I at a higher chance to catch an STD (are any of the previous dudes druggies or **** anything that moves) and that's about it.
Getting caught up on her past instead of sleeping with her like you wanted to is just your own Ego getting in the way. Imagine if you were being judged on some random fatty that one night you got too drunk - that would suck!
For LTR I believe mindset is more or less the same, but I can't comment, may be some of you who had been with a cool girl and found out she had slept around in the past can comment on how and if it changed anything in the dynamics of the relationship