"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Another date with her

pgbiswas79

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Hi guys,
I had a second date wid this girl after a gap of 3 months coz i ws in australia for some project. am frm india. I engaged her in conversation but at times we were having breaks of silence which lasted not more 5 seconds. I maintained good eye contact and spoke to her most of the times wid confidence. she ws smiling most of the time i ws speaking wid her and being my witty self, i made her laugh too. she ws touching her hair and fondling her earrings while speaking wid me. she at times ws not keeping long eye contact wid me ( she is a bit shy and she admits tht too) but tht didnt deter me. she gave me the usual "u look good" comments and i reciprocated as well.

She is a bit scared of elevators and she held my hand all the time we were going up and down the elevators. at times i grabbed her hands using both my hands. I gave a bunch of roses and she said it meant very special to her and tht nobody has ever given her tht.

Questions:

I am meeting her again the next day after the date. I asked her too

Am I doing things too fast here ? Should i keep some gaps between date ?

How to keep the conversation going? I have already spoke to her abt her family, habits, passion.

Maybe i am trying too much to please her. wht should be my line of action now ?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Lust

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pgbiswas79 said:
cmon guys. how abt some suggestions or opinions. ?
You want to know why no one is replying?

Sorry, but because this thread is stupid.

Just like so many other threads. The questions you are asking are all newbie questions, and you have not read any of the bible, or any other recommended material before posting up really simple questions.

So don't bump it. Instead, read the fvcking bible like so many guys have told so many more newbies.

You bought her roses? I'm not judging purely by this, but you seem still quite AFC. Keep this up for a few weeks, maybe months, and she'll lose interest.

You are overthinking, i can tell you didn't work on Inner Game too much. Someone with strong Inner Game knows the woman wants them bad, and it's up to her to convince the man to spend time with her.

I remember reading your old trhead, about that email. Honestly, you have a lot of work to do, you haven't got some of the very simplest basics down. Go read the bible, 15 lessons by Pook, and all your questions plus many more future ones will have been answered.

By the way, it's highly recommended that you use proper english when posting, and interacting with women online.

No more "ws", was.

No more "wid', with.

No "U's, 4s" or any other "shortcuts".

They just make you look childish.
 
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